Dispatches from the Creation Wars

A Brilliant Reply to Sally Kern

Found this at Pam’s House Blend. It’s a letter from a high school senior whose mother died in the Oklahoma City bombing. He’s not happy about Kern claiming that gays are worse than terrorists and he tells her so with great eloquence. Full text below the fold:

Rep Kern:

On April 19, 1995, in Oklahoma City a terrorist detonated a bomb that killed my mother and 167 others. 19 children died that day. Had I not had the chicken pox that day, the body count would’ve likely have included one more. Over 800 other Oklahomans were injured that day and many of those still suffer through their permanent wounds.

That terrorist was neither a homosexual or was he involved in Islam. He was an extremist Christian forcing his views through a body count. He held his beliefs and made those who didn’t live up to them pay with their lives.

As you were not a resident of Oklahoma on that day, it could be explained why you so carelessly chose words saying that the homosexual agenda is worst than terrorism. I can most certainly tell you through my own experience that is not true. I am sure there are many people in your voting district that laid a loved one to death after the terrorist attack on Oklahoma City. I kind of doubt you’ll find one of them that will agree with you.

I was five years old when my mother died. I remember what a beautiful, wise, and remarkable woman she was. I miss her. Your harsh words and misguided beliefs brought me to tears, because you told me that my mother’s killer was a better person than a group of people that are seeking safety and tolerance for themselves.

As someone left motherless and victimized by terrorists, I say to you very clearly you are absolutely wrong.

You represent a district in Oklahoma City and you very coldly express a lack of love, sympathy or understanding for what they’ve been through. Can I ask if you might have chosen wiser words were you a real Oklahoman that was here to share the suffering with Oklahoma City? Might your heart be a bit less cold had you been around to see the small bodies of children being pulled out of rubble and carried away by weeping firemen?

I’ve spent 12 years in Oklahoma public schools and never once have I had anyone try to force a gay agenda on me. I have seen, however, many gay students beat up and there’s never a day in school that has went by when I haven’t heard the word **** slung at someone. I’ve been called gay slurs many times and they hurt and I am not even gay so I can just imagine how a real gay person feels. You were a school teacher and you have seen those things too. How could you care so little about the suffering of some of your students?

Let me tell you the result of your words in my school. Every openly gay and suspected gay in the school were having to walk together Monday for protection. They looked scared. They’ve already experienced enough hate and now your words gave other students even more motivation to sneer at them and call them names. Afterall, you are a teacher and a lawmaker, many young people have taken your words to heart. That happens when you assume a role of responsibility in your community. I seriously think before this week ends that some kids here will be going home bruised and bloody because of what you said.

I wish you could’ve met my mom. Maybe she could’ve guided you in how a real Christian should be acting and speaking.

I have not had a mother for nearly 13 years now and wonder if there were fewer people like you around, people with more love and tolerance in their hearts instead of strife, if my mom would be here to watch me graduate from high school this spring. Now she won’t be there. So I’ll be packing my things and leaving Oklahoma to go to college elsewhere and one day be a writer and I have no intentions to ever return here. I have no doubt that people like you will incite crazy people to build more bombs and kill more people again. I don’t want to be here for that. I just can’t go through that again.

You may just see me as a kid, but let me try to teach you something. The old saying is sticks and stones will break your bones, but words will never hurt you. Well, your words hurt me. Your words disrespected the memory of my mom. Your words can cause others to pick up sticks and stones and hurt others.



What is it with kids writing brilliant letters these days? Whatever it is, let’s see more of it. Nice job, Tucker.


  1. #1 SLC
    March 13, 2008

    Re Sally Kern has a gay son

    Just like her fellow bigot, Phillis Schlafly.

  2. #2 Teri B.
    March 17, 2008

    Ken J, thank you for responding to my comments.

    I would like to argue with you further, however, I see that some other people have made excellent points, and so rather than adding to the masses of comments, I’d just like you to answer Ed’s post with as much care as he devoted to yours.

    If you want me to respond to your post as well, tell me, and I’ll be glad to do so.

    Oh, and you wanted studies that show “statistical proof that gay people face more violence than any other group”?


    1. Experts say that older statistics showing gays are TWICE as likely to be targets of violence as straights are far TOO LOW.

    2. “Nearly half of Philadelphia’s homosexual men suffered violent crimes in a year because of their sexual orientation, which is almost 12 times the national annual criminal violence rate for all men.”

    3. “Nearly four in 10 gay men and about one in eight lesbians and bisexuals in the United States have been the target of violence or a property crime because of their sexual orientation.”

    As a bonus: personal stories of being assaulted due to being gay:

    On Average:
    • 8 in 100,000 African Americans report being the victim of hate crime
    • 12 in 100,000 Muslims report being the victim of hate crime
    • 15 in 100,000 Jews report the victim of hate crime
    • 13 in 100,000 gay men, lesbians, and bisexuals report being the victim of hate crime

    Source: a report from UCLA entitled: Comparison of Hate Crimes Rates Across Protected and Unprotected Groups ( by Rebecca Stotzer, Public Policy Research Fellow at the Williams Institute).

    Hope that satisfies you, Ken J. 🙂

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