Here at ScienceBlogs I am fortunate to be among a group of brilliant, accomplished, articulate women that I still consider among my blog heroes. Even though I am now a member of the Science Blogs collective, some days I still feel like the girl at the concert who was invited to dance on the stage with the rockstars.
I am honored that, on Mothers Day, I can offer a letter from accomplished academic scientist and Queen of the Mommy Bloggers, Janet Stemwedel, Ph.D2. Around these parts, we know Dr. Stemwedel as Dr. Free-Ride. She blogs over at Adventures in Ethics and Science with weekly input from her children, the Sprogs. What I admire about her is a blogger is the fact that she has an unparalleled ability to carefully and convincingly discuss the ethical implications of a variety of scientific topics, while allowing people to connect to her as a scientist, woman, and mother. Here, when I am trying to figure out how to deal with whatever sticky and uncomfortable situation I find myself in, she's at the top of the list of people I turn to. I value her judgment and wisdom and consider her a mentor.
Per the usual, I am going to put her letter behind the cut. I asked her to send it to me because it is my hope to someday anthologize them and to have a central site through which people can find the letters (hence, the Letters to Our Daughters Project tag). I thought this would be easier than having people have to wade through Google searches to find the all of the letters around the web. That said, Janet's letter is also posted on her blog. I'd encourage you to go read it there.
Dr. Isis asked me to write a letter for her most excellent Letters to Our Daughters project, which she describes as follows:
When I was a graduate student, I took a physiology class in which I was given the assignment to recreate my scientific family tree. When I did, I found that my family tree is composed some brilliant scientists. But, my family tree is also composed entirely of men, plus me. The same is true of the tree from my postdoc. I have scientific fathers, grandfathers, and great-grandfathers, but no aunts, grandmothers, or mothers. As I considered my career path in science, I found myself wanting and needing the perspective of more senior women scientists.
The inspiration for my Letters to Our Daughters Project comes from my hope that we can recreate our family tree here, creating a forum where the mothers and aunts in our fields (which I hope to not limit to physiology, but that's where I'll start because that's who I know) can share their wisdom with us. I think there is a wealth of information among these successful women and I hope to use this forum to share it with young scientists who are yearning for that knowledge.
I'm actually in a somewhat weird position, in that my scientific pedigree (at least as I see it) includes quite a number of foremothers in college (and two in graduate school). And, I am blessed to have a mother whose own example inspired me as I looked toward advanced studies in chemistry.
Also, at least by the standard reckoning, I leaked out of the pipeline when I left chemistry to become a philosopher of science. So it's possible you'll want to take my advice with a grain of sodium chloride. However, philosopher or no, the fact remains that I love science.
Dear Daughters,
As you pursue an education in science, and perhaps consider a career in science, you will encounter challenges. Do not let these challenges put you off. While science can be beautiful , captivating, and deeply satisfying, it can also be hard. The people around you who seem to find it totally easy did not always (or will not always) find it so. If they did, chances are they were just skimming the surface, missing some of the scientific puzzles worth puzzling over; once you notice them, it's hard to let go of them.
Doing science is something that is learned. It is not an intrinsic quality of a person. This means that you are not allowed to decide you are bad at it if you haven't been immersed in learning it. And, if you want to learn how to do science -- and want it enough to devote your effort to it -- you can.
Understand that part of the challenge is not the mechanics of doing experiments or fieldwork, but the big gap between learning information and making new knowledge. You will need to be patient with yourself as you learn and you will have to refrain from doubting that you could be clever enough to make new knowledge. Many people less clever than you have done it.
Assume that you will need help from others (to learn strategies for devising empirical tests of hypotheses, to learn experimental techniques, to learn good ways to analyze data, to learn how to fix equipment when it breaks, to learn how to file the necessary paperwork). Don't be shy about asking for help, and don't be stingy about offering your own help to others. The building of scientific knowledge requires a community, and grown-up scientists ask for help all the time. (Sometimes they call this "networking", other times they call it "directing graduate research".)
If you can, join a research group where people cooperate and collaborate. Sharing information makes the climb up the learning curve less lonely, more fruitful, and frequently even something resembling fun. There's also a useful side effect here: you end up nurturing each other's excitement about doing science.
Make a point of taking stock on a regular basis, so you appreciate all the knowledge and skills you have gained. Of course, you'll also be keeping track of the knowledge and skills that you don't have yet, but want. (That list always seems longer, but there's nothing wrong with that. It means you're unlikely to end up with nothing to do.)
Now we get to a big issue: After you immerse yourself in learning how to do science, what about careers? Will you automatically be a scientist when you grow up? And what happens if you decide you want to be something else?
Please trust me that putting yourself out to learn how to do science -- and doing actual science as you are learning this -- is a worthy end in itself. Building understanding, even if it's just your own, is a good thing, whether or not you end up deciding to make doing science your life's work. And deciding to make something else your life's work does not undo what you've learned, nor what you've contributed to building new chunks of knowledge, nor what you may have contributed to the experiences of your colleagues climbing up the learning curve.
You can still love science and see other pursuits. Science can handle that kind of relationship, and your happiness matters.
If you decide that you want doing science to be your life's work -- if it feels like science is making a claim on your heart -- the perennial problems of the job market may present daunting challenges.
Don't give up.
If your heart is set on doing science, find a way to make it so. Pay attention to the advice your mentors and colleagues have to offer about finding a scientific career, but be ready to think out of the PI-at-an-R01-university box. There are many other situations where one can do science and be happy. (This is another one of those instances where it's good to ask for help and to share information.)
Make sure the grown-up scientists training you understand your devotion to science. Nudge them to live up to their responsibilities to create conditions where there is room for the people who are devoted to science to keep making contributions within the field, and to have their contributions valued.
If your choice is not to go forward as a researcher in the field in which you received your scientific training, keep in touch with the grown-ups who trained you. Let them know that your appreciation for science has not wavered, even if you've chosen to make different kinds of contributions. Maybe, as you're catching up with each other, you will even recognize some of the ways that the things you are doing are of value to science and scientists.
You may have a personal relationship with Science, but you will also have an important relationship with the scientific community. When this community raises you to be a grown-up scientist, you can leave home and make your own way in the world, but the connection to the community doesn't ever really go away.
May this community be a source of strength and comfort to you, whatever path you choose.
Janet Stemwedel




Comments
Isis,
Why won't you solicit contributions of Letters to Our Daughters from fathers, too? The more inclusive the better, I think.
Nevertheless, as so many others here, I praise your initiative on this project.
Posted by: S. Rivlin | May 10, 2009 3:34 PM
Sol, did you read the introductory post about the point of the project?
Now, off with you.
Posted by: Isis the Scientist | May 10, 2009 3:36 PM
That was a beautiful letter. This series has come at a time when I so needed it. Maybe I have always needed to hear these things! Wonderful -- thank you Isis and Free-Ride.
Posted by: gnuma | May 10, 2009 3:52 PM
My bad, Isis. Off with me!
Posted by: S. Rivlin | May 10, 2009 4:44 PM
An absolutely wonderful letter - especially for me, since I am nearing the end of my PhD and am contemplating what will be my next step. Thank you, Janet, for reminding me that there are many options out there.
Isis - I'm sure I'll say this with every letter you post - your Letters to Our Daughters project is absolutely amazing! Perhaps one day they could be all put in a book...what a great graduation/defense gift that would be!
Posted by: Mrs. CH | May 10, 2009 6:00 PM
I will print out this letter and post it to my wall. Never did I expect the appearance of a Letter that felt this encouragingly directed toward me. Thank you, Dr. Free-Ride and Dr. Isis!
Posted by: Juniper Shoemaker | May 10, 2009 7:52 PM
Thanks so much to both of you. This is beautiful!
Posted by: ElectroFizzz | May 10, 2009 8:32 PM
Great letter Dr.Stemwedel! BTW, was the MUSE seminar on morality or mortality (both being likely topics for a philosopher to teach)?
Posted by: arvind | May 10, 2009 10:52 PM
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by: Comrade PhysioProf | May 11, 2009 7:36 AM
Dear Isis, could you invite a Spanish speaking scientist to contribute in Spanish? I have a niece of 15 yrs who is on the cusp of making important decisions about her life and this would be a tremendous resource for me, (ahem, a mortal man). She is teetering on a science career and I am doing my best to help her with her decision. I think it's true to say that you have a lot of Spanish speaking daughters where you come from so they might benefit too :>).
Posted by: marktime | May 11, 2009 2:35 PM
Thank you Janet (and Isis too of course). I needed to read this today.
Posted by: Jenn, PhD | May 12, 2009 7:31 AM