Elder Dallin H. Oaks of the Mormon Church has made some interesting remarks.
In an interview Monday before the speech, Oaks said he did not consider it provocative to compare the treatment of Mormons in the election's aftermath to that of blacks in the civil rights era, and said he stands by the analogy.
"It may be offensive to some -- maybe because it hadn't occurred to them that they were putting themselves in the same category as people we deplore from that bygone era," he said.
Did you get that? He thinks the Mormons, who are trying to deny a civil right to another minority and reserve it to themselves, are exactly like a minority that were denied a civil right and had to fight to get their equality recognized.
I'm not offended. I've just determined that the elders of the Mormon Church are a collection of antiquated, dumb old bigots.
So…when can we start taxing the Mormon temples? And when is California going to kick their regressive, but intrusive, little butts out of the state?










Comments
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 13, 2009 10:04 PM
Oh noes. The hate group is fussy.
Posted by: JohnnieCanuck
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October 13, 2009 10:06 PM
Projection, you're doing it right, Elder.
Posted by: Jadehawk, OM
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October 13, 2009 10:09 PM
I keep on linking to this on pretty much every "halp! we're being persecuted!!!" thread, but it's always, always relevant.
The Persecuted Hegemon: I suspect that [Christian] persecution complex is an inevitable side effect of sectarian hegemony. Once you believe that your faith requires cultural dominance, and that it deserves it, then any threat to that dominance -- even just the unwelcome reminder of the existence of alternative points of view -- is perceived as a threat, as a kind of persecution. Thus, for example, Hannukah is perceived as a threat to, and an attack on, Christmas.
The persecuted hegemon is thus an oxymoronic creature driven by an oxymoronic principle: non-reciprocal justice. For these folks, turnabout is never fair play, turnabout is merely backwards. Thus when others respond to them in kind, or even simply remind them of the Golden Rule, they take offense, as though this constitutes an injustice toward them.
Posted by: Alyson Miers
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October 13, 2009 10:09 PM
To put it charitably:
PERSPECTIVEThey no haz it.
Posted by: Aquaria
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October 13, 2009 10:12 PM
Fucking unbelievable.
This man is either so fucking retarded that he doesn't know his own church's history regarding African-Americans, or he knows it and is just plain evil enough to think no one else would catch his hypocrisy.
Then again, it could be both.
Posted by: JohnnieCanuck
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October 13, 2009 10:12 PM
Don't forget the poll on the subject at KSTU as well. Thanks, PixelFish.
http://www.fox13now.com/kstu-poll-controversial-oaks-statement,0,7468264,post.poll
Posted by: formosus
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October 13, 2009 10:28 PM
To use an analogy that I pinched from Matt of the Non-Prophets:
"Not all discrimination is bad. For example, if you are hitting someone with a stick, and I take that stick away from you, I am limiting your rights. But not in a bad way."
Actually, it was more cleverly worded. But, in a nutshell, no one has the right to infringe on the rights of others.
Also, I was still religious (marginally) when Prop 8 came up in California. And I still voted hell no. There are no logical arguments for withholding rights from people just because they happen to love members of the same sex. And to think I wanted to join the Knights of Columbus when I was a kid.
Fuck them and fuck the Mormons. Your generation will soon die out, and you know it. Let me say that I can't fucking wait, and it can't happen soon enough.
Posted by: llewelly
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October 13, 2009 10:28 PM
Elder in denial of the LDS church's history of racism: Typical.
Elder defends LDS assault on other people's rights: Typical.
Elder portrays LDS church as an oppressed minority: Typical.
Folks, do whatever you can to make the LDS church lose their crusade in Maine.
Posted by: Fil
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October 13, 2009 10:34 PM
Mormon's, lol.
They almost make Scientology believers look sane.
Actually no, both belief systems are batshit crazy.
Golden plates...woo! Hahahahaha!
Posted by: pcarini
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October 13, 2009 10:38 PM
I hope this dinosaur lives long enough to see gay marriage legalized nationwide. And to see his open discrimination become a major contributor to a mass defection from his church.
Given the church's history during the civil rights era, it's awfully odd that when he says "people we deplore from that bygone era" he's not talking about the blacks.
Posted by: Happy Heart
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October 13, 2009 10:39 PM
I once met a Mormon who was wearing a name tag that said Elder Berry. No joke. I had to to try very hard not to laugh.
Posted by: gyeong-hwa
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October 13, 2009 10:39 PM
We've already got the initiative on the ballot to repeal prop 8. And if the LSD tries to rear its ugly head we'll take a bite out of it.
Posted by: PixelFish
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October 13, 2009 10:40 PM
Thanks for linking this, PZed. And yes, everybody go poll-crash the poll Johnny has relinked at comment 6.
My desk should have a larger groove where my head has been hitting it.
This speech is from the LDS site and is either the speech Oaks delivered Monday or is derived closely from it. Much of the speech focuses on the slightly askew version of the world wherein atheists effectively silence all religious people. In this world, there is no distinction made between asking a religious person to abide by secular law and keep religion out of the public sphere, and denying religious people office altogther. Strawman atheists are held up as bogeymen and denying other people's civil rights takes the form of "defending civil rights".
http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/news-releases-stories/religious-freedom
Posted by: mcbender
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October 13, 2009 10:41 PM
Don't fuck the Mormons! That helps them reproduce!
Posted by: pcarini
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October 13, 2009 10:42 PM
They do just fine on their own, thank you very much!
Posted by: gyeong-hwa
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October 13, 2009 10:43 PM
Opps. I said LSD. I meant LDS. Well, they work in the same way in that they like to fuck over people's ability to think straight.
Posted by: Pygmy Loris
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October 13, 2009 10:43 PM
The man is 77. He probably supported the LDS Church's bigoted policies during the Civil Rights Movement.
Posted by: PixelFish
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October 13, 2009 10:49 PM
"People we deplore from that bygone era" should include Ezra Taft Benson, thirteenth prophet and president of the LDS church. I know I've mentioned this before, but I'll mention it again in light of the church's racist history, but ol' Ezra wrote the forward to a little pamphlet called The Black Hammer and advocated John Bircher policies right and left during the Civil Rights era. He was about as racist as they come. And yet, millions of Mormons believed that he was God's chosen prophet.
Posted by: 386sx
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October 13, 2009 10:57 PM
Lol, that guy thinks he's an "apostle". Institutionalized cultism. Gotta love it!
Posted by: Newfie
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October 13, 2009 10:59 PM
Elder Oaks seems to think that his religious freedom should trump other's civil liberties.
Simple solution: Start a new religion that makes human sacrifices of Mormons.. and tell them that are impinging on your religious freedoms when they complain about you killing them.
Oh wait, there's a law against that. The Mormons are so damn lucky to have laws to protect them when they decide to impinge on the liberties of others... it must truly be from the love of Jesus.
Have cake.. eat it too... tax exempt... call the shots.
Posted by: Alverant
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October 13, 2009 11:14 PM
So the Mormons claim they're being persecuted because they're not allowed to persecute others. That pretty much sums of christian thought in the last 30 years.
Posted by: The Science Pundit
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October 13, 2009 11:17 PM
A friend of mine (northernskeptic) went through all the hoops and hurdles to officially leave the Mormon Church precisely because of shit like this.
Posted by: ArmandTanzarian
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October 13, 2009 11:22 PM
Cue the "But we were persecuted too!" comments.
Seriously, of all the comparisons you could dig up, you took black people in the 60s?
Posted by: StoaPoikile
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October 13, 2009 11:29 PM
I don't live anywhere near California, but I have been following this issue pretty closely because some of the legal aspects intrigue me. Let me just set a few things straight -
1. There were a myriad of instances of voter and donor intimidation and harassment after the vote on Proposition 8. This was not limited to members of the LDS Church, but the LDS Church got most of the press. The Mormon Elder is saying this is undemocratic. Who would disagree with that? Of course it is undemocratic. No, his comparison to the civil rights movement doesn't correlate perfectly, but most comparisons on any subject don't have perfect correlation. He is simply saying that voter intimidation and harassment occurred then and it has occurred now and it is undemocratic.
2. Insofar as I can tell the Mormon Church did nothing illegal in activating on this issue. Those who argue for the taxation of Churches who engage in the political process know little about the Internal Revenue Code and the IRS's current position on this issue. Churches are able to engage in the political process when it involves something that the Church considers to be a moral issue. However, they cannot endorse specific candidates and they cannot spend a large amount of their budget on political activism. The LDS Church did neither in this case and actually could have done much more and still have been within its rights. There is a lot of precedent in this area, but I will simply point you to a recent IRS ruling in favor of the Niemoller Foundation.
Now, the gay marriage issue is a completely separate item. My interest is mainly in the legal aspects at play and I don't think PZ frames the issue very well. I haven't read the entire speech given by the Mormon Elder, but he is a former Supreme Court clerk, U of Chicago law professor, and State Supreme Court Justice, so he does understand something about the law. I will have to go give it a read.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 13, 2009 11:34 PM
Here are a few comments from the ex-mo site. These comments are from people who lived inside the beast, so they know what they're talking about. I don't think the commenters will mind me bringing their thoughts to a wider audience:
For more, see http://www.exmormon.org/boards/w-agora/index.php?site=exmobb&bn=exmobb_recovery Scroll down to see Steve Benson's well-documented takedown.
The mormons are framing this as "Religious Freedom is Being Threatened" on their web and print outlets. This is a tactic to align themselves with fundies, with Bill Donahue, with Focus on the Family, etc. For those that don't know, someone broke some church windows in an almost-all-mormon town -- maybe even disaffected mormons? Anyway, my local news outlets are playing this up big-time as a "hate crime." It's all bollocks.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 13, 2009 11:37 PM
isn't it convenient that StoaPoikile ignores the hate group knowns as the LDS's role in taking civil rights away from a group of people.
Posted by: pcarini
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October 13, 2009 11:38 PM
Yes, if you change the meaning of 'intimidation' to mean picketing and boycott. Remove instances of these two (completely legal and commendable) behaviors from your 'myriad' and you don't have much left. This doesn't make the few actual cases any less deplorable.
Posted by: aratina cage
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October 13, 2009 11:40 PM
Just wait until we have President Romney *shudder*.StoaPoikile,
1) The Mormons voted away a legal right. That's about as bad as it gets. Intimidation? Fuck you. How is it not intimidating to take away people's rights? Fucking bigots.
2) *sigh* That doesn't make what they did virtuous. It was evil, plain and simple.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 13, 2009 11:40 PM
Yes, if you change the meaning of 'intimidation' to mean picketing and boycott.
But, bigots have every right to expect to continue to get money from me after they actively work to harm me. And I have no right to tell other people that such folks are hate group members out to harm us, and that we shouldn't be giving money to them.
Posted by: Cicero
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October 13, 2009 11:42 PM
The commentary on this blog is intriguing. I thought it may help if everyone actually read the entire talk given by Oaks rather than taking his words out of context.
http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/news-releases-stories/religious-freedom
And as for the blacks and the Mormon church thing, the comments of saying the LDS church is racist because you quote a couple Mormon leaders (completely unrepresentative of the whole) is intellectually dishonest. That's like me using a quote from Abraham Lincoln where he said black should not be allowed to vote or serve on juries (a view he later changed) to suggest that all Americans are racist.
As with the previous post, this is beyond gay-rights and has everything to do with civility in public discourse. Adding to intolerance is EXACTLY what happen during the civil rights era. Oaks wasn't suggesting that Mormons are like Blacks during civil rights by being beaten. He was suggesting that they were intimidated for their vote like those in the South were during civil rights.
Posted by: bad Jim
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October 13, 2009 11:42 PM
"Those who seek to change the foundation of marriage should not be allowed to pretend that those who defend the ancient order are trampling on civil rights," Oaks said.
The California Supreme Court disagreed, at least before Prop. 8 changed the state constitution.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 13, 2009 11:43 PM
Nice to see the hate group apologists coming forward.
Posted by: CalGeorge
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October 13, 2009 11:45 PM
I hope the LGBT community pickets the fucking Mormons forever for that bullshit they pulled in California, and for the crimes they've committed against gays.
"...as late as 20 years ago, the church counseled men with homosexual tendencies to participate in shock-aversion, vomit-aversion and other heinous experimental therapies...."
http://qsaltlake.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=1402:mos-vs-mos-the-battle-between-mormons-and-gays&catid=43:feature&Itemid=4
Posted by: Cicero
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October 13, 2009 11:45 PM
The commentary on this blog is intriguing. I thought it may help if everyone actually read the entire talk given by Oaks rather than taking his words out of context.
http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/news-releases-stories/religious-freedom
And as for the blacks and the Mormon church thing, the comments of saying the LDS church is racist because you quote a couple Mormon leaders (completely unrepresentative of the whole) is intellectually dishonest. That's like me using a quote from Abraham Lincoln where he said black should not be allowed to vote or serve on juries (a view he later changed) to suggest that all Americans are racist.
As with the previous post, this is beyond gay-rights and has everything to do with civility in public discourse. Adding to intolerance is EXACTLY what happen during the civil rights era. Oaks wasn't suggesting that Mormons are like Blacks during civil rights by being beaten. He was suggesting that they were intimidated for their vote like those in the South were during civil rights.
Posted by: raven
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October 13, 2009 11:45 PM
Source?? This sounds like total bullcrap lies. It is also perfectly legal to call bigots, bigots whether they are a religion or not. It isperfectly legal to call the LDS church a made up fiction mind control cult, especially when it is the truth.
If the LDS church wants to play the politics of hate, discrimination, and bigotry, they have to realize that these are unpopular positions for many Americans. They get pushed, they push back.
The LDS church is simply trying to impose their beliefs on everyone by force of law. That hasn't been popular with many in the USA since the time the Puritans started hanging witches.
Posted by: pcarini
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October 13, 2009 11:45 PM
The news stories at the time (if we're talking the same ones) mentioned they were broken by BB guns. This suggests kids causing trouble to me far more than t3h gay backlash. LDS churches were being vandalized in Utah long before Prop 8 became an issue. Hell, I grew up with kids who vandalized churches during the week and then went to them with their parents on Sunday.
Posted by: Jadehawk, OM
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October 13, 2009 11:47 PM
and another tone-troll.FYI, condemnations of "uncivility" are a tool of oppression: when the dominant group cries that the oppressed groups refuse to play by the rules that the dominant group established, you know it's all just bullshit to protect their unearned cultural privilege.
Posted by: 386sx
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October 13, 2009 11:50 PM
And as for the blacks and the Mormon church thing, the comments of saying the LDS church is racist because you quote a couple Mormon leaders (completely unrepresentative of the whole) is intellectually dishonest.
Yes, completely unrepresentative the whole. Oh, and by the way, appointed by God!
Posted by: pcarini
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October 13, 2009 11:50 PM
You do understand that Mr. Oaks was using the civil rights fight of the 60s as an example, correct? The church had an institutionalized policy of racial exclusion until 1978. Intellectually dishonest, my ass.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 13, 2009 11:51 PM
Jadehawk,
weren't we just chatting about this with regard to "North Dakota Nice?"
I keep forgetting that my saying, "Fuck off bigot" is far worse than using the law to harm me, or institutionalizing torture regimes in the name of "cures," or shunning in the name of "love".....
Fuck off, bigots. You have nothing of value to say to queer people or our allies. Nothing.
Fuck off, bigots.
Posted by: aratina cage
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October 13, 2009 11:55 PM
Cicero,
You mean Abraham Lincoln, the gay president? Most White people were racist at that time, including just about all the White Founding Fathers. How could they not be racist (and the worst kind of racists, too — ones who believed slavery of Blacks was OK to enshrine in the Constitution and that the murder of Natives and theft of their land was their right). Lincoln did the morally right thing in the end with regard to slavery and that is what mattered most.
No, I've seen enough homophobic White supremacy in the little bit quoted. No reason to immerse my mind in that garbage any more than it has been.Posted by: Cicero
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October 13, 2009 11:55 PM
@raven
Haha, are you serious?? You apparently did not do much research on this topic. Here is one example:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=102x3619198
There are several websites that give details about how much individual Mormons contributed and where they live with instructions to harass them. The LDS temple in LA was tagged as were several church buildings and members were intimidated from going to church. However, the problem was that this grouped voiced their opinion and then were told they shouldn't be allowed to VOTE!! Gay-rights aside, talk about UNDEMOCRATIC. Try to separate yourself from the situation and look at it objectively.
Posted by: Kamaka
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October 13, 2009 11:57 PM
Umm, no, it is the issue. I'm fine with polyamory, but where do a bunch of polygamists get off dictating marriage rules for other folks?
The mormon/catholic alliance against homosexual marriage is quite telling, because I doubt they agree on much else.
Posted by: Kamaka
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October 14, 2009 12:00 AM
Now, the gay marriage issue is a completely separate item.
html fail, my last post was supposed to start like this.
Posted by: pcarini
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October 14, 2009 12:03 AM
I'll take the man who says something racist but abolishes slavery over any million assholes who claim Jesus's love while actively supporting repression.
Posted by: cathy
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October 14, 2009 12:04 AM
Until 1978, blacks were banned by LDS from being priests or participating in certain ceremonies of the mormon church. To say that an organization which discriminates in access to blacks is not racist is bullshit. Perhaps not every single mormon is racist, but the mormon leadership pretty clearly advocated segregation during (and past) the civil rights era and this was the church's stated and enacted policy. FCLDS continues to hold bans against full black participation. BTW, heres a quote from the book of mormon
"And [God] had caused the cursing to come upon them, yea, even a sore cursing, because of their iniquity. For behold, they had hardened their hearts against him, that they had become like unto a flint; wherefore, as they were white, and exceedingly fair and delightsome, that they might not be enticing unto my people, the Lord God did cause a skin of blackness to come upon them. And thus saith the Lord God; I will cause that they shall be loathsome unto thy people, save they shall repent of their iniquities."
The mormon holy book holds black skin to be a curse from God (and you are not allowed to breed with cursed blacks either), it seems silly to say that they are not racist.
Posted by: StoaPoikile
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October 14, 2009 12:04 AM
Re: pcarini | October 13, 2009 11:38 PM #27
If you think boycotting and picketing are the extent of what I am talking about, you probably haven't followed this very closely. Look, I am not saying Mormons are being lynched, but there have been reports of violence, many documented instances of violent threats, rocks thrown through windows at a number of Church meetinghouses, etc.
But let's put all of that aside and just suppose it is boycotting and picketing only. The intent of these activities is very clear - intimidation. In other words - "don't you dare sign one of these petitions, donate to this cause, put a sign in your yard, or vote for this proposition or we will make your life a living hell." This really isn't complicated - the intent of such activity is intimidation, pure and simple. I fully agree with the Mormon Elder that it is undemocratic.
Posted by: raven
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October 14, 2009 12:05 AM
It seems like all the higher Mormon leaders are all white guys, christofascist wannabes (most xians don' t consider them xian) somewhat to the right of Attila the Hun. Well OK, it is a gerontacracy run by fascists who promote other fascists, no surprise there.
What happens if a Mormon is liberal or (gasp, horrors) even a....Democrat? Or a humanist? Are they excommunicated or stoned to death or what? Inquiring minds want to know.
Making politics a litmus test for a cult has its downsides. People who don't agree with the politics often end up leaving both the politics and the religion behind.
I'll also add here that wherever Mormons are a majority like in Utah and the surrounding areas, they discriminate ubiquitously in subtle and not so subtle ways against what they call the gentiles. When your cult claims to be The One True Religion and The Real Jews, that happens.
Could be anything or anyone. Someone burned down a fundie church near where I used to live. It wasn't satanists or atheists, it was the teen age kid of some members who had an issue of some sort against the church leadership.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 12:06 AM
pcarini @36: Yes, I think you're right that most of the "violence" comes off as juvenile. And the idea that kids vandalize a church they also attend is backed up by a few of the church-goers I know. It's mostly stupidity, and not persecution, nor a real threat to "religious freedom." I heard that rocks were thrown through glass doors at some church-owned buildings in Jordan, Utah.
I think there are groups of crazy christians (James Sweet mentioned Baptists on a previous thread) that picket the LDS buildings near temple square. The crazies also occasionally phone in bomb threats. I think their take on it is that the Mormons are evil. This is also stupid.
Posted by: aratina cage
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October 14, 2009 12:06 AM
Cicero the bigot sayz:
Did the Mormons who took away people's rights ever stop to look at what they were doing objectively? No. They destroyed families. Think about it yourself for a moment. The government forcibly separating you and your loved one and your children all because Church X had more votes. So don't tell us to look at it objectively. We live it. These are our lives the Mormons attacked. Boss Hogg is going to have to put up with the Duke boys.Posted by: CalGeorge
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October 14, 2009 12:07 AM
http://mormonism.suite101.com/article.cfm/byu_electroshock_aversion_therapy
Not the actions of a persecuted minority.
They won't even let gays kiss on church property. That's how paranoid and pathetic they are.
Posted by: Cicero
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October 14, 2009 12:09 AM
@Apostle Buford T. 386sx, Esq.
This may be tough to understand but the fact that a leader is appointed by God does NOT mean that everything they say is OF God. They are men, not God. Mormons are not taught to follow leaders blindly (a point which we could debate).
@pcarini
Oaks was using the intimidation of the Civil Rights era (which he says himself was more intense) as the example. Not the beating, lynching and killing. Intimidation against voting one way or another. Big difference there and anybody not writing with emotion would see that.
@aratina cage
Very mature of you. Obviously you've made up your opinion. However you're comment is representative of the reason WHY racism and same-gender descrimination have persisted for so long...no one is willing to listen to each other.
Again, my comments are not about gay-rights or racism. They are about understanding and civility. To paraphrase John Locke, "it is not the diversity of opinions but the unwillingess to tolerate different opinions that has lead to all the bustles and wars that have occured."
Posted by: truthspeaker
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October 14, 2009 12:10 AM
Cicero, regarding racism, we're not talking about a few isolated, out of context quotes from a few Mormons. We're talking about official LDS church doctrine through 1977.
Posted by: truthspeaker
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October 14, 2009 12:12 AM
LDS doctrine says otherwise.
Posted by: raven
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October 14, 2009 12:14 AM
There are 33 million people in California and probably over a million Mormons. Someone spray painting a temple hardly constitutes persecution. It is vandalism and not right or smart but hardly indicative of some generalized persecution.
To put it in perspective, gays face daily ubiquitous discrimination and are occasionally beaten up and killed.
Wake me up when someone starts killing Mormons for walking down the street. And if the LDS church promotes hate, don't be surprised when people hate them back.
Posted by: aratina cage
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October 14, 2009 12:14 AM
Fuck you too, Cicero. It's only "mature" when you play by Boss Hogg's rules.Posted by: Kamaka
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October 14, 2009 12:14 AM
They won't even let gays kiss on church property.
Gays kissing?? Ewwwww.
Is that allowed anywhere?
Posted by: truthspeaker
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October 14, 2009 12:14 AM
So, telling people we disapprove of the causes they support is intimidation now?
If I boycott a store that gives money to neo-Nazi organizations, and tell them so, I'm being undemocratic?
Posted by: pcarini
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October 14, 2009 12:15 AM
Fine, provide links to credible sources, please. Churches are vandalized (particularly in Utah) on a fairly steady basis, so an instance of vandalism isn't enough to support your case. Find me instances of vandalism where there is more than just speculation on the ksl.com messageboards tying it to gay rights and we might have someting. I'm again not stating that such a case doesn't exist -- just provide a credible source.
So the party complaining that its free speech is being violated is also intimidated by the thought of people picketing? The boycotts serve a very clear purpose, which is to ensure you don't financially support someone with whom you disagree, or in this case someone who is directly harming you and your friends.
You'd have to be some sort of dumbass or ideologue to believe that picketing and boycott are undemocratic ways of getting your message across.
Posted by: heironymous
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October 14, 2009 12:19 AM
I hate Utah Nazi's.
@Fil-9 - No one makes the Scientologists look sane. (just like no one puts baby in a corner
@Cicero - How many Mormons were lynched in California? How many Mormon churches bombed? I don't want _just_ the Mormon's tax exempt status revoked. I want _All_ church's tax exempt status revoked. Equal rights for all. We should amend the constitution.
Posted by: Kamaka
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October 14, 2009 12:19 AM
Mormons are not taught to follow leaders blindly
This is a joke, right?
Posted by: CalGeorge
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October 14, 2009 12:21 AM
From 1979:
http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,920738,00.html
Those poor, put-upon, persecuted Mormon elders. Boo fucking hoo.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 12:22 AM
Cicero @34: Per your advice, I did read the entire speech. It brought up more questions and presented more instances of Oaks twisting and shaping history to fit his preconceptions.
For example, Oaks said:
Hmmm. How do we square this with Joseph Smith running for President in 1844 and saying:
A "theodemocracy" sounds unconstitutional.
Posted by: strange gods before me, OM
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October 14, 2009 12:22 AM
Cicero, you are a bigot. Why do you think we care what a bigot thinks?
Posted by: Cicero
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October 14, 2009 12:24 AM
@ truthspeaker
Pretty sure that was the policy of the United States until the late 1960's.
let's quote some more recent LDS leaders:
"God’s second commandment, love thy neighbor, clearly leaves no room for racism" - Maxwell
"Brethren, there is no basis for racial hatred among the priesthood of this Church" - Hinckley
I do not condon racism spoke by any LDS leader in the past. It was wrong absolutely and completely and any LDS person today who justifies racism is not living the teachings of the Church.
Here is the commentary: http://www.newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/public-issues/same-gender-attraction
Posted by: raven
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October 14, 2009 12:27 AM
Um, no. Mostly these are protected free speech activities under the US constitution, first amendment.
The LDS church can't have it both ways. They can't indulge in right wing extremism and hate politics and not have people oppose them. Not everyone in the USA is into wingnut politics or hate. Deal with it. I'm one of tens of millions and no, I have no interest or intention of joining your horrible, evil cult.
Posted by: 386sx
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October 14, 2009 12:27 AM
This may be tough to understand but the fact that a leader is appointed by God does NOT mean that everything they say is OF God. They are men, not God.
Not tough to understand at all. Nor is it tough to understand that people who are appointed by God often can are total dogmatic thick-headed jerks, since we have many fine examples of such. The thing that is tough to understand for those mired in religious indoctrination is that they aren't appointed by God.
Posted by: pcarini
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October 14, 2009 12:27 AM
You would agree with me that there must be some sort of objective standard for what counts as "intimidation", correct? Not just that the party claiming to have been intimidated did indeed feel that way -- something that a detached third party would also consider intimidating?
Posted by: aratina cage
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October 14, 2009 12:28 AM
Here goes the hand waving! It wasn't just the LDS church that was racist, it was the entire U.S.!Posted by: SC OM
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October 14, 2009 12:30 AM
And thus we have a succinct summary of the Mormon position.
Posted by: strange gods before me, OM
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October 14, 2009 12:31 AM
So what you're saying is that the LDS church is only 10 years more racist than the rest of the country. That's reassuring.
Posted by: aratina cage
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October 14, 2009 12:33 AM
LDS church racist? Hah! They were just being Proud Americans™ like every other good White U.S. citizen until 1977.
Posted by: Cicero
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October 14, 2009 12:36 AM
@Lynna
Haha! Firstly, I don't think those comments go contrary to each other. One is saying the constitution protects all flesh, the is Joseph Smith (likely speaking as a really charasmatic man and probably not on behalf of God)saying we need to be lead by God. I don't know the context of Joseph Smith's words so I can't really comment on them but it's funny how people try to suggest that Mormons are these regressively conservative people. Pretty sure Harry Reid is a Mormon!!! So are a lot of democrats and people pushing for gay-rights!
But that wasn't your point right. You're problem is that you're so focused on tearing down a man and I don't care because the man doesn't matter! That's like me telling everyone that Moses was a murderer (because he killed the guy in Eqypt). The man never mattered. People who fault mormonism for flaws in people or even the organization itself have missed the whole point!
And what other questions did the article raise?
Posted by: pcarini
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October 14, 2009 12:36 AM
ftty
Posted by: truthspeaker
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October 14, 2009 12:37 AM
You're off by a few years (the Civil Rights Act was passed in 1964), but regardless, that does not take away from the point that racism against black was official LDS doctrine until 1978. Nobody disputes that racism was codified into the laws of many US States through 1964. But earlier you tried to claim that any charges of racism against the LDS church were based on a few statements by a few leaders.
Posted by: truthspeaker
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October 14, 2009 12:39 AM
Cicero, does your bishop know you referred to Prophet Smith as just a man?
Posted by: gyeong-hwa
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October 14, 2009 12:39 AM
lol. You do know Moses never existed right? But that's beside the point. It does matter. He is representative of a whole move, and if he can commit an evil what's to stop his flock from doing it.
Posted by: Kamaka
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October 14, 2009 12:43 AM
any LDS person today who justifies racism is not living the teachings of the Church.
I lived in Salt Lake City for 6 months in 1975, and racism (the Sons of Cain) was dogma. I was there, and the bigotry was real.
So, please, do tell us about the new, improved, racist teachings of the church. And when you've explained that, please justify, in rational terms, your bigotry against homosexual people.
Posted by: pcarini
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October 14, 2009 12:43 AM
So if the church itself, its people and its prophets can all be so quickly discounted, what's left? The Book for Mormon itself?
Posted by: aratina cage
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October 14, 2009 12:46 AM
So Joseph Smith = Harry Reid. Gotcha. Will have to remember that one.
Posted by: Cicero
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October 14, 2009 12:47 AM
@pcarini
I absolutely agree with you. There should be an objective measure of intimidation. Actually, I'm not really sure what the legal definition of intimdation is. That's a really great point though.
Here's what I found on wiki (I know...not the most legit site, but it was cited :) )
Intimidation is intentional behavior "which would cause a person of ordinary sensibilities" fear of injury or harm.
Did the LDS people fear injury or harm? Well, not sure what the definition there is either. Does that mean physical injury or harm? Or financial or emotional? I think that is up to the courts.
Anyway, sorry I can't discuss more. Going to bed.
To state my opinion clearly. I am a Mormon (Obviously), and I do not condon any form of racism. Furthermore, I realize that the LDS Church's position on gay-marriage seems hypocritical. I think many within the church struggle with reconciling it (read Harry Reid's comments...heck, he is the one pushing to repeal don't ask don't tell...that's right...a Mormon!!). This was not meant to be a commentary on gay-rights, but rather on understanding and how easy it is to inculcate intollerance without being willing to listen to each other.
Posted by: pcarini
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October 14, 2009 12:47 AM
All the worse for him, I don't think he has any idea!
Posted by: Sanction
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October 14, 2009 12:51 AM
Cicero says:
How do you propose that we be understanding and civil about an institutionalized promotion of bigotry?
Violence against LDS temples and individuals based on the beliefs that they promote or hold is wrong, just as violence against atheists or gays based on their nonbeliefs or lives is wrong.
But short of violence, I decline your invitation to express "understanding and civility" toward bigots, individual or institutional. In short,
Posted by: Rey Fox
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October 14, 2009 12:53 AM
They never even had the damn fire hoses turned on them, let alone the police dogs. Whiney fucks.
Posted by: Pygmy Loris
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October 14, 2009 12:55 AM
Cicero,
You do know that Harry Reid is pretty damn conservative on social issues, right?
60% of Utahan are Mormons.
Utah voted 63.09% for McCain/Palin in '08, and the Republicans running for the three House seats each got more than 63% of the vote too. Huntsman/Herbert (Rep) won 77.9% of the vote the same year for governor.
Only Oklahoma and Wyoming had a higher proportion of McCain/Palin votes than Utah. Those are really damn conservative states, too.
Pew US Religious Landscape survey says Mormons are the most conservative of any religious group in the USA
Mormons are one of the most conservative religious groups in the country. To say otherwise is to lie.
Posted by: Cicero
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October 14, 2009 12:58 AM
@Kamaka
You're basing your opinion of the LDS church today on SLC 1975? Wow...if you want to come check out SLC I'd be happy to give you a place to stay. We can go on a tour of the place.
@truthspeaker
My bishop would agree with me...as would most LDS members. I'm in market research so if you'd like me to conduct a survey I'd be happy to do so.
@pcarini
Great question. Everyone you cited are people. They are imperfect. The Church is imperfect because it is run by men (though inspired...and yes, it can be inspired and imperfect). So what do we hold on to? For God so loved the world that He sent his only begotten Son. That whosover believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life. That's it.
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 14, 2009 12:59 AM
Wait, is the mormon bigot seriously claiming with a straight face that:
a) Boycotts, the single most tepid and peaceful form of protest on the planet is the equivalent of say what happened to my friend when she tried to counterprotest a mormon Pro-prop 8 gathering and was attacked with signs or indeed more aptly to the assumed metaphor, what anti-choice activists have been doing since they decided it was just faster to start shooting people?
and b) that the Mormon Church enforcing segregation for decades after it was fucking illegal in this country to do so as well as it's well-documented history being at the forefront of fighting against civil rights for black people was actually them standing up for the little man. Furthermore, all the real mormons were marching with Dr. King posing as young jews?
Oh and let's not forget c) ignoring the fact that the Mormon Church is being "targeted" because they currently are the fucking anti-gay movement. Most of the funding is coming directly from the tax-exempt mormon church which is a fucking violation of campaign finance and tax-exempt status laws, the leadership are front-groups for the Mormon Church and in every campaign being invesitgated since California, they have openly broken and ignored the state laws for campaign finance disclosure, often committing perjury in the process.
Also, really tired of the new favorite conservative meme. No, fighting against oppression or commenting on oppression isn't reverse oppression or being the real oppressors. It's called being a fucking human being. If gays funded a national organization to strip away all marriage rights for mormons as well as civil rights in general, I'd damn well expect mormons to point that out and to react negatively about it. I would even expect them to swear.
Because that's what fucking human beings do when they're being fucked around.
Posted by: CalGeorge
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October 14, 2009 1:00 AM
I hope gays continue to protest these arrogant, homophobic Mormon elder assholes for the rest of their days and piss on their graves when they're dead.
http://www.newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/public-issues/same-gender-attraction
Posted by: Azkyroth
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October 14, 2009 1:05 AM
I believe you've been asked once already to cite some sources....
Even assuming what you say is true, however:
"MOO-OM! HE HIT ME BACK! AND I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING TO HIM!"
Posted by: raven
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October 14, 2009 1:06 AM
Still waiting for all that persecution data. So far we have.
1. Someone spray painted a temple in LA. That is vandalism, a dumb move and illegal.
2. Someone broke some windows in a church in small town Utah. Could be anyone for anything. Someone burned down a fundie church once. It was one of the member's kids with a grudge.
3. Still waiting for more incidences.
To put this in perspective, who knows how many gays are killed in the USA every year for walking down the street. In the Bay area it used to be a few per year but seems to have died down. Matthew Shepard was beaten, tied to a fence in subzero weather, and left to freeze to death.
What it looks like is the LDS church wants to get involved in extremist hate politics but they don't want to be called on it. They have to realize that outside of Utah, they are don't have total control and that is what happens in democracies.
Posted by: Pygmy Loris
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October 14, 2009 1:07 AM
More from the Pew research on Mormons:
And the traditional beliefs and practices of the LDS Chuch are bigotry and misogyny. It's disgusting system of entrenched white male power.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 1:08 AM
Cicero @73: From the talk given by Oaks:
This also sounds unconstitutional.
Cicero
I've heard and read similar claims from the mormon hierarchy all over lately. Is this an acceptable tactic now? The man is a Prophet, except when he's not? It's a convenient way to get around all those awful things mormon Prophets have said, written, and done. Ezra Benson, in his official capacity as Prophet backed up the John Birch Society, and backed up Governor Wallace. Hinkley lied to 60 Minutes about the beliefs outlined in the Doctrine and Covenants. What about anti-gay propaganda on LDS Church stationery, signed by General Authority figures, directing anti-gay hate propaganda in Hawaii. They were just being men then, right? How do the members know when to obey and when not to obey?
If the members go by the Doctrine & Covenants, or by the Book of Mormon, or by the hilariously discredited Book of Abraham, then they'll be sure to be right, right? -- because that's all official, sacred, approved, etc. Except that much of the unethical behavior, outright lies, oppression of selected groups etc. are in the sacred texts. "Obey" and "obedience" play a big role in the BoM. Lots of threats for not obeying, dire consequences, and so forth. So, how is a mormon supposed to know when to obey and when not to obey? Or can they all just pick and choose based on their own personal "agency" and flaming-bosoms and still-small-voices whispering in their heads? If so, why do some of the poor sods still get excommunicated?
PZ posted recently a video showing a gay mormon giving his testimony at a sacrament meeting. The man read aloud from a letter he received from his mormon cousin. His cousin said she loved him and respected him, but that at her grandmother's knee she had learned to obey the prophets and so she would be contributing to Prop 8, and backing up the doctrine she heard from her Bishop.
From what I can tell, you are saying that Oaks was speaking as a flawed man and therefore we should forgive him his error, and should not think of him as an authority representing the LDS official line-to-toe. But, we're all wrong to disagree with Oaks because his entire talk, taken in context, makes maximum godly sense, praise heavenly father. And really, Oaks is not in error. And really Joe Smith was never in error, except when he was.
Posted by: aratina cage
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October 14, 2009 1:09 AM
pcarini, I laughed when I saw your correction with the White and Delightsome link, but now that I've read how chief LDS church leaders pushed malignant racism, I feel sick to my stomach.
Lynna, the Steve Benson piece contains plenty of quotes that read like the wingnut storm we heard about Obama in the last few months before the election and still hear today from teabaggers and dittoheads.
Posted by: vasha7
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October 14, 2009 1:13 AM
Anti-Mormon incidents? In Chicago about 10 years ago, there was a guy who repeatedly tried to run over people leaving a Mormon church as they crossed the street -- I think he tried it three times before the police finally caught him. Luckily, no one was seriously hurt. When he was arrested, the police stated that he seemed to be mentally ill and they didn't know why he had a grudge against Mormons.
Posted by: pcarini
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October 14, 2009 1:14 AM
Yet when these imperfect men decide that their flock should be encouraged, from the pulpit, to financially support the effort to pass hateful, bigoted legislation everybody hops to. Don't you see the problem here?
I'll spell it out: they're wrong. Sometime, probably about twenty years after we've federally outlawed discrimination based on sexual preference, they'll realize it, at which point "god" will tell them that gays are ok. The leadership can safely pull an about-face on this, and the people who supported bigotry don't have to feel bad because they were only following orders from above. Neat trick, that, but no less shitty for it.
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 14, 2009 1:17 AM
Silly Azkyroth, he doesn't have to provide any actual examples beyond kid shit because you see his bishop told him that the mean old gays were doing things 12x worse than Hitler to sweet old ladies who love their children and everything his bishop says is absolutely the truth, yup, yup, yup.
Because actually stating that the courts found no evidence of intimidation or illegal backlash and so they're stuck spinning boycotts of businesses who directly donated money to Prop 8 under the public disclosure laws is somehow some new invention not say a favored tactic of the right...which, say the mormon church attempted to use in a very illegal variation of, which would be to say the attempt to blackmail pro-gay businesses into donating an equal amount of money to Pro-prop 8 or face the fiery hordes of the bigots.
I believe self-awareness is actually a toxic substance to religious bigots. There is no other reason to be this ignorant of your own fucking actions both now and in history. No other group gets to start each day as if it was a brand new Grandhog's Day and yesterday is cheerfully erased. Why do mormons get to pretend it works like that?
Posted by: John Morales
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October 14, 2009 1:17 AM
raven,
I'm not American, but still am appalled by this:
Second suspect ID'd in gay-bias beating that broke every rib in Queens man Jack Price's body.
Posted by: Sanction
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October 14, 2009 1:19 AM
From the Oaks talk (courtesy of Lynna):
WTF?
What part of
gives any suggestion of any "special place of religion in the United States Constitution"?
Dumbass.
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 14, 2009 1:27 AM
raven 90-
Can do you one better. Trans people, a tiny subgroup of the general queer community, counting only the murders this year for being queer or trans in America and only counting up to the end of August:
12 murdered in cold blood. This year, only counting 9 months worth of this year. Not intimidated, not boycotted, murdered for being visibly queer, because queer people are accepted targets.
Numbers via Trans Day of Remembrance.
And wasn't there that SF woman who was assaulted during the campaign for having a no on 8 window sticker?
But Cicero, don't let me interrupt, please do tell me how some mormons when they went to church had to pass by some angry people who they just fucked with for sport and that made them feel sad because they were filthy degenerates and some of them looked brown or worse jewish.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 1:30 AM
aratina:
Yes, perceptive of you to notice. My mormon friends email me Is-Obama-the-Anti-Christ? viral emails. They still have active John Birch Society clubs -- but they veil their prejudice in Patriotism (capital "P" intentional). The LDS Church does not officially control or condone this stuff, but the ground-truth is that the lives of mormons are so tied up with the church, and the culture is so church-oriented, that everything spirals around the church. They have co-opted the Boy Scouts, and now some ex-mo websites have sections titled "How to Protect Your Child from Rape in the Boy Scouts." Must be some more of those flawed godly men. It's worse when they sweep the abuse under the rug.
That said, there are mormons who campaign for gay rights, for equality for women, etc. There must be a few mormons who voted for Obama, but I wonder if they feel the need to confess that to the Bishop.
Posted by: Brainy Jello
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October 14, 2009 1:34 AM
@ Sanction #98 - "What part of 'Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof...' gives any suggestion of any "special place of religion in the United States Constitution"? Dumbass."
I would guess he was taught rather a lot about the Constitution, even if you don't like the way he interprets it. Just be grateful his name isn't much more familiar to you.
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 14, 2009 1:34 AM
And mark this well, those 12 transpersons may be really dead, but they can thank White Jesus Jospeh Smith that at least they weren't "intimidated" by faggots. That shit scars you for life. Imagine if those dead people had been boycotted against. Oh ma, the vapors, I nearly went to the great beyond at such a terrible thought. Auntie em, auntie em.
Posted by: 386sx
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October 14, 2009 1:34 AM
So what do we hold on to? For God so loved the world that He sent his only begotten Son. That whosover believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life. That's it.
Cicero, this is obvious baloney because there are thousands of religions out there. There's no "that's it" about it. But yet you think this is the grandest case you could make, despite its obvious baloneyness. This is your brain on religion, folks.
And you think there is something profound about your statement, in spite of the utter lameness and outrageously dumb nonsensical way for a "god" to go about doing something. This is your brain on religion, folks.
Posted by: Nathan
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October 14, 2009 1:34 AM
Wow - the loonies are out tonight!
It never ceases to amaze me how the religious bigots are shocked and appalled (appalled, I say!) when it’s pointed out to them that by funding and supporting a movement to suppress the rights of a minority group, that same minority group as well as their friends and families reacts with hostility. Oh, the poor Mormon Church, unfairly targeted for being one of the largest organizing blocks in the anti-gay rights movement since Antia Bryant’s Save Our Children. And their treatment by the liberal bastion that is the mainstream media (~hint: sarcasm~), railing against those religious elders who are the picture of piety and decorum. All of this doesn’t even take into account the “restraint” they showed, in not fundraising and organizing nearly to their fullest abilities – why, the gays* should bow down and thank them (but no bowing too closely, now – wouldn’t want anyone to get the wrong idea) for being so civil and restrained in their efforts. They’re only protecting them from their own wicked nature, after all. It’s all simply shocking.
It’s about as heart-rending as those CGI sheep in the Serta ads (~hint: more sarcasm~).
* The lack of lesbian marriage in religious propaganda is somewhat curious to me. Either they don’t see it as a problem, or those crusty old men think lesbianism hasn’t been invented yet.
Posted by: raven
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October 14, 2009 1:43 AM
Good Cthulhu, 12, this year? How many Mormons were murdered for being Mormon this year. Roughly zero, I'm sure. And there are a lot more Mormons than trans.
Strange. Do you have any idea why trans get targeted for murder? This is something I don't pay much attention to or follow closely.
I'll add here that suicide is a leading cause of death in teen agers. Many of those for some reason or another are gays. Something about being a hated and discriminated against group and being a kid just doesn't mix well.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 1:49 AM
From the talk Oak's gave:
Do I smell "They persecuted Mitt Romney" -- "even other Christians persecuted the good mormon man" ? Yes, I think that's the smell, all right. Total lack of empathy, of course, for what it would be like to have a gay candidate for president, or an atheist, or a gay atheist. MAJeff, are you thinking of running for office/
Posted by: mythusmage
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October 14, 2009 1:51 AM
PZ, since you've been spending so much time bashing loonies and moonbats here I thought I'd recommend a different topic. A few months back you wrote about placozoans in Seed, noting that they were the most primitive known animals. Rather recently I've learned that that's not necessarily the case.
Consider the myxozoans (introductory). Once counted among the protists or slime molds, most recently genetic work has shown a closer relationship to the cnidarians, and some researchers think that the myxozoans are derived cnidarians, though I'm more apt to think them as ancestral to jellyfish, hydra, and corals.
I'd like to see you post about myxozoans, and I'm wondering if there's support for this among Pharyngulites. Would Pharyngulites like to see a myxozoan post, as a break from the loon bashing and moonbat reaming?
Posted by: Sanction
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October 14, 2009 1:57 AM
Brainy Jello says:
I'd pick Sandra Day O'Connor over Oaks any day.
Other than that, I'm not "[j]ust ... grateful." Bigots in a position of power are dangerous assholes, even if that position of power is not as great as the position of justice of the U.S. Supreme Court.
But thanks for your attempted reassurance.
Posted by: frankosaurus
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October 14, 2009 1:59 AM
magic underwear. What more is there to say?
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 14, 2009 1:59 AM
raven, don't have a scientific answer on the why, but my best guess is several factors.
First, visible queerness, since bigots often still believe that gayness stems from improper gender roles, someone being in the "wrong gender role" seems most obviously queer and thus threatening to bigots.
Secondly, trans are nationally recognizable but with fewest protections and rights, thus being the most deserving (currently) of the acceptable target, especially with the success the trans panic defense has had in the past in getting one cleared of charges of murder.
Thirdly, economic desperation has pushed a disproportionate number of transpeople into the sex trade and prostitutes or those assumed to be prostitutes are unfortunately considered non-persons.
Fourth, the wingnuts seem to believe that trans people more than others intend to either rape you or your women or otherwise trick people into homosexuality to recruit them. See the stealth-homo idea.
And fifth and likely most critically, trans women especially are seen as simultaneously gay and not-gay to sleep with, so people exploring their sexuality with a non-traditional woman or expressing attraction to a non-traditional woman may fear backlash from their peers and the ostracization of being thought of as gay and thus less of a man and well to solve that problem, they can prove themselves to be a man by killing said woman or by "removing the woman problem". Either case leads to dead transperson.
But this is based mostly on what I can piece together, it's not entirely scholarly.
And the teen suicide rate among young queers breaks my heart every god damn time.
Posted by: Nathan
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October 14, 2009 2:00 AM
Wait - just one quick, off-topic question, Cicero and others (although, I suspect you've spammed the comments page and are off, never to look back at the responses) -
I'm curious - what would your response be to PZ's post, or the Mormon church in general if you had a gay, lesbian, or transgendered child? Hypothetically, of course.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 2:05 AM
Sure, I'd love to see a post about myxozoans, but I don't see why that would require that we stop holding loonies and moonbats to account.
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 14, 2009 2:13 AM
Nathan 111-
Well if they're anything like the mormon parents of one of my lesbian friends. Disown the unclean creature, cut off all contact lest it blight the purity and pray to the bishop to save them.
Mormons are really big on the purity doctrine, hence the racism. One drop of sin in a family doesn't just fuck up that person's chance of getting into mormon heaven, but the chances of every single living mormon relative. Thus a queer mormon often has several choices, start lying or entering "reparative therapy" in order to protect grandma, be disowned to save the rest of the family from hell, or get the entire family on the church's shitlist.
Parents worth a damn choose option 3. Sadly she didn't have those, though from what I hear, she's managing to slowly slide her sister down the lonesome path to Hell by occasionally calling her up on the phone and having gasp coffee with them.
I actually got a version of the mormon disownment from my best friend in middle school. Apparently at the time there were rumors I was unaware of that I was a gay male. Apparently they reached the boys parents and he was forbid from having even conversations with me for fear that it was catching. Being a kid at the time he did what they said and we didn't have a conversation again until late high school where he apologized for being an ass for his parent's religion.
In odd coincidences, the person who became my current best friend after that incident happened to be raised an evangelical christian. That act was the beginning of a slow ride into fully rejecting that faith to become a norse pagan.
Ah cults and children...
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 14, 2009 2:17 AM
112-
Unsurprising and terribly terribly sad.
Posted by: truebutnotuseful
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October 14, 2009 2:25 AM
Nathan wrote:
It's because girl-on-girl action is hawt. And Utah has the highest number of online porn subscriptions out of any state in the U.S.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 2:32 AM
Making gentle fun of and for mormons:
http://www.sltrib.com/ci_13545312
Posted by: pixelfish
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October 14, 2009 2:41 AM
"Completely unrepresentative of the Church as a whole...."
See, that whole line would have a lot more credibility if the example I cited earlier--Ezra Taft Benson--wasn't the appointed head of the whole frickin' LDS church for a number of years. Thirteenth Prophet of the church.
The head of the Church. Wrote. A. Racist. Pamphlet.
The man who was supposedly called of God. The man called to lead 10 million people....in theory.
Just happened to be a racist.
That's not some schmoe dug up from the depths of nowhere.
Incidentally, I linked to the text of the entire talk several posts before Cicero condescendingly demanded that we read the thing in context. Yay for reading comprehension!
RE: persecution - I can damn well tell you that most Mormons in Utah don't feel persecution for being Mormons, EXCEPT IN THEIR HEADS. When you casually wander around, assessing everybody by their church calling, and calling them Brother and Sister right and left, you're obviously not worried about people knowing you're Mormon. On the other hand, try telling random people you're an atheist in Utah. Chilly reception, lemme tell you.
The biggest sign that Mormons don't understand oppression and persecution for their beliefs: They think arguments and boycotts and once-in-ten-or-twenty-years vandalism is oppression. I didn't get it when I was Mormon, although I did always wonder at the Especially for Mormons stories where Peter Priesthood bravely stands up for his beliefs at a party....because that never happened in Utah. Ever. Everybody was Mormon. I could name only two openly non-Mormon kids in a graduating class of over 900. You tell me who has the power there.
Posted by: Porno Lily
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October 14, 2009 3:01 AM
I think problem is: Mormones, they are little bit like Later day Saint, no? Are heretics who are inventing own so called "holy" book and are denying primacy of pope! So is it not so important if they are saying bad things about the homosexuality. Only true source for the word of G-D about the homosexuality is Holy Bible and Pope. By the way, I once have acted in adult movie where men do the sex with men and women do the sex with women. I will say no more about this, but I give you hint: was very sexy. I think Mormones and the Later day Saints, they do not know this movie.
Posted by: John Morales
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October 14, 2009 3:14 AM
Methinks Porno is a Poe.
Posted by: Feynmaniac
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October 14, 2009 3:31 AM
Poor Christians can't seem to get the persecution they so desperately want.
Jesus had a masochistic message to his followers:
Then he got the ultimate masochism fix: the crucifixion.
And for a while Christians were rejoicing that they were becoming happy meals for lions. Then Christianity went mainstream and since about Constantine they have been more likely to be the persecutor than the persecuted.
But the "persecution=good" meme stuck. Since naturally "good=we" a persecution complex had to be developed to accommodate the meme and the lack of persecution. If you read the fundies you get a sense of extreme paranoia. They feel victimized even though Christians make up the majority in the US, they have much political power and they are very safe. They have to somehow convince themselves that repealing mandatory prayers in schools or letting gays marry is persecution.
Posted by: Walton
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October 14, 2009 4:15 AM
Cicero,
First off, I should be clear that I don't hate Mormons any more than I categorically "hate" any other religious group. As a non-theist, I don't agree with Mormon beliefs - nor do I agree with Catholicism, Protestantism, Islam, or any other orthodox theistic beliefs - but I'm sure there are plenty of individual Mormons who are decent people. Most people here would say the same, despite their (sometimes) rather overzealous rhetoric.
That said, the problem which many of us have with the LDS Church today is that it is among the best-organised and best-funded lobbies against gay rights in the US today. This is not to single out Mormons; the Catholic Church, and several conservative/fundamentalist Protestant sects, are equally anti-gay. But the LDS Church, due in part to its centralised top-down structure and its strict requirements of adherence to doctrine, is very effective at marshalling its followers to achieve political objectives - and, right now, its funding and resources are being directed towards a goal (banning gay marriage) which I and others consider to be discriminatory and wrong.
Although I do not find Mormon beliefs (or any other theistic beliefs) rationally defensible, I accept that, in a free society, you have a right to profess and practice whatever religious beliefs you choose. However, when you are motivated by your religious beliefs to campaign for political measures which take away rights from other people, I think the rest of us have a right (and indeed a duty) to oppose you in doing so.
Posted by: Richard Eis
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October 14, 2009 4:22 AM
-It may be offensive to some -- maybe because it hadn't occurred to them that they were putting themselves in the same category as people we deplore from that bygone era," he said.-
am i the only one who read that as "mormons deplore blacks"?
-As with the previous post, this is beyond gay-rights and has everything to do with civility in public discourse.-
Unless you are gay and your civil rights have just been taken from you. In which case being told to be civil is insult on injury.
No, we won't be civil. Your religion is a pathetic pack of lies that a 5 year old wouldn't believe. You don't get to tell us how to live when your own lives are so damn miserable.
Posted by: Strangest brew
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October 14, 2009 4:36 AM
# 120
"And for a while Christians were rejoicing that they were becoming happy meals for lions."
And so they did and do the poor luvvies...prob is that never actually happened quite as the xians pretended it did!
True some were executed...'ad bestias' but it was apparently mainly a treat for criminals and enemies of the state...clue there maybe!...which might explain why some xians ended up on the menu.
In the main there is very little proof positive the mass xian execution via lion claims.
Several writings and mentions were penned by committed xians not impeachable sources considering the breed.
But even then mention of mass lion tea parties with xian aperitifs were not central to the text.
Certainly it seems plausible in later centuries that the Church exaggerated the point...what a shock?
What is very true is that Roman society got mightily peeved at the upstart whiners..that they were Christians mattered not a jot..Romans could not care less they were a poly theist society anyway...one more god or less did not bother unduly...what did was the mewling and constant complaining by 'christus' clowns...but that does not mean they were persecuted just disliked for being total prats and a general vexation to the spirit!
Strange how so very little changes!
Posted by: Naked Bunny with a Whip
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October 14, 2009 5:39 AM
Even if we allow your ludicrously broad use of "intimidation", they have these things called "secret ballots" which completely bypass it.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 7:38 AM
This was not meant to be a commentary on gay-rights, but rather on understanding and how easy it is to inculcate intollerance without being willing to listen to each other.
The LDS Church has nothing of value to say to queer people. It's a hate organization.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 7:47 AM
3. Still waiting for more incidences.
I'm sure he's talking about the bigot Margie Christoferson (or whatever the hell her name is) at El Coyote restaurant, a business more than willing to take gay money and whose owner then takes that money to contribute to an anti-gay cause. Picketers telling other gay folks (and allies) not to eat there, not to give their gay dollars to the anti-gay, is wrong, wrong, wrong. Bigots are entitled to our money.
There was a musical theater. Program director gay to Prop 8. Donors said, we don't want our gay dollars going to the anti-gay and said we'll no longer be attending shows. He resigned. That's wrong. He's entitled to our money. Same with LA Film fest.
Here's what it comes down to: bigots are entitled to be bigots and to profit from those they're working to harm.
Posted by: Richard Eis
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October 14, 2009 7:54 AM
-Here's what it comes down to: bigots are entitled to be bigots and to profit from those they're working to harm.-
No they don't. Thats free speech gone mad. Mad I tell you. I wouldn't want to eat in a place that was pretending to be friendly then stabbing me in the back. It would be downright creepy. Would I trust them to serve me properly? or not put weird things in my food?
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 7:55 AM
Program director gay to Prop 8
should read "gave"
Let's also take a look at LDS involvement in NOM--funding and Board of directors (and a few commenters here have been on top of that)--and its involvement in the current campaign in Maine. Or how about LDS involvement in the ballot campaigns in Alaska and Hawaii.
Actively working against LGBT people and shocked, SHOCKED, that LGBT people don't want to be their friends. Because, after all, they're so "nice."
Posted by: Cowcakes
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October 14, 2009 8:45 AM
I'm astounded that currently in the poll 38% of people agree that Mormons have been persecuted and obviously don't see the double standard that voting yes entails. Must be suffering from RIV, Religion Impaired Vision.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 8:48 AM
Must be suffering from RIV, Religion Impaired Vision.
More likely, they're suffering from MPDS, "Mormon Persecution Delusion Syndrome." In their own minds, it's still the 1840s in Missouri. Everyone, EVERYONE, is out to get them at all times. Any criticism is the same as murder. Taking your money to another business is the same as legally taking away rights. Calling them a hate cult is a hate crime.
Posted by: MosesZD
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October 14, 2009 8:54 AM
That's a pretty stupid analogy to make. First, because as pointed out, it's exactly opposite of what happened during the civil rights era. Second, it's a stupid analogy to make because the Mormons, as a church, were against civil rights and discriminated against blacks as an institution. Benson, the head of the Mormon Church back then, was a big-time racist. His grandson left the church, became an atheist, and published a huge expose on Benson's (and the Church's) racism and racist policies.
The Mormons also fought the ERA in the 1970s. Fought the right for women to vote. Fought the repeal of prohibition. The Mormons were also the reason Utah became the first state to outlaw marijuana and began the long process of its criminalization. The John Bircher's got lots of help and succor from the Mormon church.
That nut-job on Fox, Glen Beck, is a Mormon. And he does speak a lot of Mormon bullshit beliefs in his rants. Not to say all Mormons believer that crazy talk. But huge swaths of those cultists do believe that crap. Beck is on the more radical fringe perhaps, but it's not the same gulf of separation that most of us have from Beck's lunacy.
In fact, thinking about it, I believe there is not a single social issue I can name which the Mormons have been on the "correct" side (the one embracing equal rights, autonomy of the individual and respect for the individual and their personal-life choices).
Posted by: Richard Eis
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October 14, 2009 8:59 AM
i was just reading the comments...it started with people being sensible...but after about 15 comments I hit the "gay jihad" commenter. Really these people need to know their first amendment rights. It's pathetic.
Posted by: Insightful Ape
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October 14, 2009 9:00 AM
To belabor the obvious, it is really a shame that Cicero the Idiot doesn't seem to understand, an organization with a "scripture" claiming that dark skin color is punishment for skin is racist by nature. You simply can't paper over that.
And by the way, Moses did commit premeditated murder. Just read Exodus. He looked to left and right to be sure no one was looking before he killed a man.
Posted by: Sili
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October 14, 2009 9:00 AM
It would be nice if we could take away their tight to vote - it'd be for their own good. They do love moaning so, after all.
Posted by: SEF
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October 14, 2009 9:06 AM
@ Cicero #30/#34:
Justifiable intolerance of unjustified intolerance is a good thing though. Bigots should not be allowed to get away with imagining they're on the side of good. All that's required for their evil to prosper is for the genuinely good people to be tolerant of them and it. Mormon intolerance of (harmless and even beneficial) homsexual relationships is something which should not be tolerated.
The only interesting issue which could have been there would have been if the Mormons were trying to stand up for themselves having multiple partners in their marriages. Which, as it happens, I'd be much more willing to consider as similarly harmless and even beneficial - if it weren't for the fact that it was always one man with a harem of women, never the other way, and it was done oppressively rather than fairly. But they weren't doing that anyway. They were simply and unreasonably trying to oppress someone else.
Unfortunately, Oaks was still trying to liken himself to the blacks actually being intimidated (read: killed and tortured, not just picketed) for daring to consider themselves as equally human and equally deserving of the right to vote etc. Something which is actually the position of the homosexuals in the modern scenario and not of the Mormons.
And he was doing this rather than properly likening himself to the whites being intimidated back then, in a way which didn't happen (ie much beyond merely having people write to point out their racism), for trying to continue to oppress the blacks and demanding that it was their right to do so. Back then, just as in the modern scenario, that demand was typically made on the false basis of religion rather than any fair and rational grounds.
So he's dishonestly (and very nastily) trying to reject the role he actually plays and co-opt instead the sympathetic* role of his victims. That's a sign of an evil man more than merely a stupid one.
* ie deserving of sympathy.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 9:19 AM
The Mormons were also the reason Utah became the first state to outlaw marijuana and began the long process of its criminalization.
And the first state in this almost 15-year orgy of anti-gay marriage legislation to ban same-sex couples from marrying. And, they also amended state adoption laws, because of gay folks, to keep unmarried people from adopting.
The LDS is a hate cult.
Posted by: Strangest brew
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October 14, 2009 9:32 AM
# 135
"That's a sign of an evil man more than merely a stupid one."
It would seem also to be a prerequisite sign of religion in general..the religious by default and the Mormon religion in particular...they are what they rant and rave about...Malevolent evil...and they are proud of it!
Posted by: raven
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October 14, 2009 9:33 AM
Still waiting for those LDS persecution stories. So far we have.
1. Temple spray painting. Vandalism is a crime and it is dumb.
2. Broken windows in a church in Utah. No indication that it wasn't just bored kids with a pellet gun.
3. Still waiting, and will wait forever. There isn't any persecution, they are just lying.
Meanwhile, gay teen agers commit suicide in numbers much higher than the already high teen age suicide rate. An unknown but large number of gays are murdered each year for being gay. Plus the ubiquitous hate and discrimination.
Well really, Cicero the Mormon bigot just lied. Oaks just lied too. Lying in politics is common. It is damage control, the bigoted, LDSfascist, haters that run the church are playing the persecution card to deflect people who call them what they are.
The LDS church is simply trying to impose their religious beliefs on the general public by force of law. They do this all the time where they have a majority, Utah is as much a theocratic state as they can get away with as long as the USA still maintains army bases there.
When the LDS church plays politics, people play politics back to them. Way democracies work.
Posted by: CalGeorge
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October 14, 2009 9:47 AM
http://www.watchman.org/lds/progress.htm
http://www.lightplanet.com/mormons/basic/gospel/kolob.html
There's even a hymn to Kolob:
If you could hie to Kolob
In the twinkling an eye
And then continue onward
With that same speed to fly
Do you think that you could ever?
Through all eternity,
Find out the generation
Where God began to be
Or see the grand being
Where space did not extend
Or view that last creation
Where gods and matter end
Methinks the spirits whispers,
“No man has found your space'
Nor seen the outside curtains
Where nothing has a place
The works of god continue
And worlds and live about
Improvement and progression
Have one eternal round
There is no end to worry
There is no end to love
There is no end to being
There is no death above
http://www.allthelyrics.com/lyrics/fiddlesticks/if_you_could_hie_to_kolob-lyrics-1208280.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WwYm_mKQ3Gs
When they aren't gay bashing, they're making stupid shit up or trying to defend the stupid shit that others made up a long time ago. Or soothingly singing about the stupid shit.
Vicious and stupid. A dangerous combination.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 9:50 AM
Vicious and stupid. A dangerous combination.
But "nice" and "civil."
Posted by: Sparrowhawk
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October 14, 2009 10:09 AM
So the bigots are crying persecution because they were called out as bigots for acting like bigots? Oh my, that is rich! Seriously, is there something wrong with the tax exemption laws? I know tax exempt religious organizations aren't allowed to endorse candidates, and I would HOPE that they aren't allowed to endorse ballot initiatives either, especially not directly use resources and funds to support them. There's just so much projection and irony going on here with this guy claiming that mormons are like blacks during civil rights....from the fact that they were trying to deny a group rights by supporting prop 8 to the fact that until recently the official church stance toward blacks was....well, nevermind. The whole thing is silly and that's no shocker for me since religious faith is involved. Just wow.
Posted by: of-the-willows
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October 14, 2009 10:11 AM
Cicero barfed:
I do see what you're trying to say, and it's wrong. The key isn't that there is a flaw in a person, it's that Mormonism draws that flaw out and feeds it. Unhesitatingly feeds their bigotry, as the case
may beis. Whatever can be used from the religion to support a status quo, or benefit the in-group, will be used. Your idealized individual mormons who also happen to be pro-gay rights do so IN SPITE of their religion,not because of it.Posted by: raven
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October 14, 2009 10:16 AM
There you have it. Suicide is the third leading cause of death in 15-24 year olds. Gays are 2-3 times more likely than their peers to commit suicide.
Cicero claims we aren't civil to hate filled, malevolent bigots. Correct. I'll be civil when they stop driving kids to suicide, promoting hate and discrimination, and lying. This will be long after hell hits absolute zero.
I couldn't find any statistics on the suicide rate among gay LDS teen agers. Wouldn't surprise me if it is higher.
Posted by: MosesZD
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October 14, 2009 10:17 AM
For the record, I'm a CPA with a Master's in Taxation from (in my day) one of the top accounting programs in America. When I was there I was one of the top students there. I then went out and worked in large-firm tax accounting and for the Internal Revenue Service before I went into private practice on my own. My actual, practical, educated real-world opinion is that you totally didn't undestand Neimoller. You twat.
To qualify for tax exemption under the federal tax code, a 501(c)(3) organization like the Niemoller Foundation must not participate or intervene in any political campaign on behalf of or in opposition to any candidate for public office. Neimoller skirted this by encouraging others to break the law. That's how they got away with it. They were NOT DIRECT.
The LDS Church engaged in direct participation. That is prohibited. In a 2006 speech, the IRS commissioner said (to this generic issue):
Seriously, you're an idiot. You really didn't know what distinguished Niemoller and you act like you have a clue. You don't. So shut up and get educated before you lecture people on this issue. Especially in a place where people who DO THIS FOR A FUCKING LIVING AT A VERY, VERY HIGH LEVEL tend to get really pissy about HACKS SHOOTING OFF THEIR IGNORANT MOUTHS.
Bless you.
As for me, there are just two days left for the extended individuals. So feel free rant all you want about how mean and/or stupid I am and how you're the fucking god of NPO taxation.
Posted by: se-rat-o-SAWR-us
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October 14, 2009 10:35 AM
Don't miss out on the fact that Jesus' original 1831 polygamy revelation to Joseph Smith commands Mormons to marry Indians so that their posterity would become "white."
Later, in Jesus' 1843 polygamy revelation, Jesus commanded Mormons to marry multiple women or be damned:
This covenant directly from Jesus is "everlasting", so anyone who does not adhere to it is damned to Hell.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 10:38 AM
In the recent vandalism incident in Jordan, Utah, someone threw rocks at the glass doors in several LDS buildings. "Stop spreading your lies, pagans," was the message written on pieces of paper around the rocks. This sounds more like the Baptist and other Christian objections to mormon dogma. However, it could just as easily have been mormon teenagers, or anybody else ... except atheists. Atheists don't usually classify religious followers of any kind as "pagans." http://www.upi.com/Top_News/US/2009/10/12/LDS-churches-in-Utah-targeted-by-vandals/UPI-19971255364378/
Posted by: Richard Eis
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October 14, 2009 10:43 AM
nor pagans.
They will probably blame the atheists anyway...just in case.
Posted by: cromulent742
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October 14, 2009 10:44 AM
There's an even greater irony here. When the Mormons practiced polygamy, they attacked monogamy saying it was a great evil to society. Now they try to defend monogamy and claim that homosexuality will be the downfall of our society. (http://www.i4m.com/think/sexuality/homosexual_ruin.htm)
Posted by: nigelTheBold
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October 14, 2009 10:47 AM
A good friend of mine is a lesbian in a Mormon family. Because of the way the church (and neighbors, and even her own mother) have treated her, her dad has reconsidered his faith. When I met him, he had recently come to the conclusion that if there were a god (he was leaning to non-existence), he certainly wouldn't create a set of laws that would force a family to disown a loved one.
The church doesn't stand much chance on this subject. They are one of the last holdouts, along with fundies and more orthodox Catholics.
I think we'll see national same-sex marriage much sooner than most of us believe. (At least, I hope. The signs are good, I think.)
Posted by: Strangest brew
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October 14, 2009 10:48 AM
Any fool that actually swallows that crap is a prat with severe mental challenges...anyone that preaches the crap and expects it to be received as the truth ...or a reality that revels in the grand title of... Elder... of a cult of fantasists is obviously barkingly insane... the fact there is so many deluded idiots tis neither here nor there...that seems to be more a bitter reflection on a secular world that allows the nonsense to fester... they are 'ridiculous' in the extreme...there is no other epithet suitable!
Can we have Jedi knights, Orcs, Elves, or Dementors from Azkaban being recognized as a legitimate article of faith and tax exempted please ?...I baggsy Dúnedain status and being Isildur's heir, ...left to wonder the hi ways and by ways of middle earth until ...
"Renewed shall be the blade that was broken, the crownless again shall be king."
For a legend that would do nicely...kindda shows Mormonism what a real tale should be.
As for another 'proper' legend how about King Arthur and the Knights of the round table...
'HIC IACET ARTORIVS REX QVONDAM REXQVE FVTVRVS'
There is so much beauty in imagination from ancient non religious literature, folk tales and humanity...and it seems par for the course that the best a few pathetic deluded fools can kook up would be a disgrace to a 7 year old writing a fantasy assignment for a class in creative writing!
These folks are shallow and ignorant...and a total disgrace...simple like so!
Posted by: Anri
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October 14, 2009 10:54 AM
Cicero sez (in part):
Would you say that just such an unwillingness to tolerate different opinions might manifest as an unwillingness to recognize the right other people have to a lifestyle that differs from yours?
Maybe even a little?
Or is it not an issue when the intolerance comes from god?
Just something you might want to consider - when the LDS church is willing to extend understanding and civility, it might just deserve the same itself.
Posted by: ankhank
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October 14, 2009 11:01 AM
> Just be grateful his name isn't much more familiar to you.
Yeek!
I knew they'd taken over the Boy Scouts a while back, which was bad enough. A story there.
But I had no idea they'd gotten to the step of being considered for a seat on the Supreme Court -- twice!
Ford and Reagan. Imagine what a difference that would have made if that elder had been on the Court all these years.
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 14, 2009 11:37 AM
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Not true. Atheists call one group pagans.
Of course that group is pagans.
It also rules out gays as the culprit as they don't call mormons pagans (usually because they know at least one neopagan bisexual and don't see it as an insult), preferring epithets more like bigot, fascist, haters, and of course mormons. So that's not gay backlash and we're completely down to the boycotts and investigating the money trail. Yeah, they are really being repressed by the queers.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 11:39 AM
So that's not gay backlash and we're completely down to the boycotts and investigating the money trail. Yeah, they are really being repressed by the queers.
Well, there was also the google map thing showing where folks who signed petitions lived. I want that info so I can tell which neighbors are not welcome in my home, and whose doors I won't darken, live. Same thing happened in MA (which also allowed me to report someone to the AG for using my address when they hadn't lived there for two years)
Posted by: sqlrob
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October 14, 2009 11:50 AM
@MosesZD:
But Prop 8 isn't a candidate. Is it still illegal? Slimy and should be illegal, but it appears to follow the letter of the law, at least the law you quoted.
Posted by: StoaPoikile
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October 14, 2009 11:52 AM
Re: MosesZD | October 14, 2009 10:17 AM
I understand this tax issue very well and also have the same certifications you claim and have worked at the same levels of the professional world, although in my line of work I try to stay away from profanity-laced diatribes in presenting this information.
Do you notice a common thread running through the tax guidance you cited? Note that it ALL pertains to the political activities surrounding CANDIDATES. The LDS Church engaged on an ISSUE and did absolutely nothing related to specific political candidates. Yes, I understand that Niemoller was in more of a gray area, but if the IRS sided with Niemoller, isn't that a clear indication that the LDS Church is well within the current regulatory framework on this issue, considering that they didn't go anywhere close to endorsing specific candidates? If you are a tax professional, I don't understand how you can disagree with this very straightforward issue.
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 14, 2009 11:54 AM
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Doesn't really matter, because they also broke campaign finance disclosure laws, so even if it would have been legal, by trying to hide their real contributions, they broke the campaign finance laws anyways.
Posted by: StoaPoikile
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October 14, 2009 12:10 PM
Earlier in the thread, several people were discussing what is meant by voter "intimidation". The Mormon Elder actually defined the term as he was using it. He said -
"What I mean by intimidation is when people exercise their religious beliefs and they are then fired from jobs, churches are subject to vandalism, people are coerced,"
All of this happened and it is well-documented and anyone can go and look it up. Of course the newspapers are not going to carry every instance or even a fraction, but the fact that it has been reported is indicative of what is going on. The Mormon Elder also acknowledges (as I stated previously) that there isn't a perfect correlation in the comparison to voter intimidation in the Civil Rights era. He said -
"I would say that the intimidation I refer to in connection to Proposition 8 was not as serious as what happened in the South, but I think the analogy is a good one,"
The reason the analogy works is because both cases involved instances of retaliation and intimidation toward a group based on their support of a piece of legislation. Yes, the type and degree of the intimidation may be different, but it definitely occurred and he is simply saying that we need to be careful about this type of activity in our political discourse.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 12:11 PM
Thanks for the correction. What I meant to say was that atheists don't call Mormons "pagans" -- but I do find it interesting that all of Hinckley's PR efforts to bring the LDS Church into the "Christian" category hasn't made that much headway with any christians other than the mormons themselves.Cerberus @157 is correct. The mormon church is being investigated:
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/26/us/politics/26marriage.html?ref=us
http://www.boston.com/news/local/articles_of_faith/2008/11/mormons_facing_1.html
The two links above refer to the Prop 8 campaign in California. The info below refers to the current campaign in Maine, with a reference to the investigation of the California campaign:
http://news.lavenderliberal.com/2009/08/13/karger-warns-maine-of-money-laundering-by-nom-mormons-dobson-others/
On previous threads, I pointed out that the wife of a mormon Stake President in Maine was running the PAC.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 12:20 PM
Mormons are ramping up prejudice against gays in Hawaii, and some mormons disagree strongly with the tactics: See
http://www.chinoblanco.com/2009/03/mormon-church-is-fighting-civil-unions.html
Posted by: raven
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October 14, 2009 12:27 PM
Repeating the same old lies. We asked for documentation about this persecution many times and never got any. You are just a lying religious kook.
How many gay teen agers commit suicide every year? Quite a few, I posted the statistics above in #143. How many gays are murdered every year? No one knows but Cerberus posted a link that 12 trans were murdered this year alone. They are a very small minority of the LBGT population. How many gay kids and adults were beaten up this year? Again, no one knows, but when you have hate and discrimination it happens a lot.
Wake me up when people start killing Mormons for being Mormon.
The real problem is that the LDS church wants to get into politics and impose their religious views on nonMormons. This isn't going to go over well with the segment of the population that values living in a secular and free democracy. Push people and they push back.
My impression is that the old white religious gerontacracy that runs Utah is so used to being dictators that they don't know how to handle politics when they are a small minority. We will show them what living in a democracy means. No you can't force your religious views on other people. And yes, people will call you hate filled, fascist bigots when you are. Deal with it.
And don't bother asking me or people like me to join your nasty little weird nonxian made up cult. Making politics and hate part of a religion is a dumb move. People who don't like your politics or hate aren't going to like your religion either.
Posted by: Doug Little
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October 14, 2009 12:37 PM
SLC must be a conman's equivalent of Mecca. I mean if all those people buy into Joseph Smiths religion racket then they will buy into anything. The guy was a convicted conman before he hatched the perfect scheme. You would think that this fact would at least call into question his testimony about an angel and some golden tablets, that conveniently disappeared after he was done translating them. How convenient that he then went ahead and started to receive revelations from God, when personal matters arose, that fixed said personal matters to the benefit of himself.
Posted by: Bernard Bumner
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October 14, 2009 12:40 PM
"Yes, gay people are insulted, assaulted, beaten, discriminated against, mocked, misunderstood, slandered, demonised, and murdered, but someone once called me a bigot. A bigot! Can't you feel my pain, too?"
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 12:42 PM
Raven @161
Gay Mormon Suicides and the Politics of Silence
http://www.affirmation.org/suicide_info/witness_sealed_with_blood.shtml
Posted by: Chiroptera
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October 14, 2009 12:57 PM
StoaPoikile, #158: What I mean by intimidation is when people exercise their religious beliefs and they are then fired from jobs, churches are subject to vandalism, people are coerced.
I have a question. How do we distinguish between the intimidation of voters for the way the vote and the intimidation of bigots for being bigots and undermining the basic principles of democracy?
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 1:03 PM
Whitewashing LDS Church History:
http://www.lifeafter.org/curse_of_cain.aspMore of a lie than a whitewash, perhaps. "Mormonism and the Negro" by John Stewart documents the 1951 First Presidency proclamation regarding the Curse of Cain. You can also find the Curse of Cain in Doctines of Salvation vol.1 of Mormon Doctrine... and there's more if you want to look into Ezra Benson's writings.
Is it okay to discriminate against black or "dusky" people if "we really don't know the reason" -- yeah, right, that would make it okay.
Posted by: StoaPoikile
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October 14, 2009 1:06 PM
There are many references to the awful acts committed against gays in this country. There is no doubt that gays and lesbians are persecuted far more severely than members of the Mormon Church. I understand that and I think it is deeply troubling, but members of the Mormon Church voicing their opinion in a civlized way in the public square regarding the definition of marriage does not equate to the type of anti-gay violence that has been referenced.
We are talking about backlash for voicing ones opinion in the public square.
In response, many here will say that the very voicing of an opinion on marriage incites violence against gays. No. Such a response eliminates the responsibility of those who commit such terrible acts. Voicing an opinion in the public square in a civilized and respectful way is what this country is founded upon. Violence against gays is clearly terrible and deeply troubling, but it cannot be logically tied to how the Mormon population (about 1-2% of California) voted or participated in a particular election.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 1:07 PM
For a definitive history of racism in Mormon literature and in Mormon culture, see
http://www.utlm.org/onlinebooks/curseofcain_contents.htm
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 14, 2009 1:08 PM
I think what baffles me the most about the mormon bigots is that their whines are about things they and the anti-gay forces at large have been doing for years.
Boycotts of "pro-gay" businesses were bread and butter including as I stated in an actual blackmail campaign during the run-up to election and targeting people to be fired has been the favored right-wing tactic against critics forever.
Not only this, but they have been very vocally against ENDA, which seeks to primarily make illegal the ability to be fired for being gay. So the apologist whines about people being fired for being religious, while supporting an organization actually lobbying to keep in place laws that allow people to be fired simply for being gay, no other reason needed.
Also, the people "fired" weren't fired, they were ultra-rich business owners who resigned offices of power while usually retaining most of their shares and thus actual control over their businesses. They got in trouble because they donated CORPORATE funds to yes on 8. So that would be the business that makes its money in the gay community demanding that gays continue to give them money or else they're intimidating free speech.
I'm sorry, but if "Christ Doodads Inc" a major evangelical supplier gave a large corporate contribution to no on 8, I'd expect wingnuts to boycott the business. Certainly, their tactics are to boycott ANY business that donates to equality issues which is why there were campaigns to boycott both Microsoft and Apple recently (yeah, I know).
So yeah, lying out of their asses on all counts.
There are real intimidation campaigns out there. The most egregious is currently Oklahoma which passed a law putting privileged protected medical information collected on women who obtain abortions on the internet. Now that's bad enough, medical information is most definitely protected in a way that money isn't for very good reasons.
But it takes on a whole nother level when you realize that every single abortion worker or volunteer or client for decades has been literally threatened with death. And those threatening have taken out a good number of doctors and volunteers already.
That's more like what intimidation means and looks like, it is a vital threat that implies genuine harm to engaging in actions. Gay people certainly know what this is like as queers are still killed at appalling rates simply for existing, but also in genuine attempts to enshrine unequal rights including the right to be fired for being gay.
Mormons cannot even imagine that equivalent for all their prattle about being "fired for deeply held religious beliefs". That's because they are not in the position of a deeply prosecuted minority and they are in fact whining about legal, extremely peaceful attempts to not actively fund or support bigotry against themselves and to note and trace the conspiracy against them.
So yes, do call me when you aren't essentially complaining that the blacks were intimidating you when they wouldn't leave your restaurant and denied you an honest day's work with their thug tactics.
And I wasn't there but I'd bet my left arm that whites only business owners complained very loudly about the thug tactics of the civil rights movement and how intimidating they were to god-fearing folks just following their deeply held religious beliefs.
Posted by: Rev. BigDumbChimp
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October 14, 2009 1:22 PM
It should be shocking to me but it's unfortunately not that anyone would have the gall to compare the violence, discrimination and stigmatization against homosexuals to people, rightly I may add, protesting the bigoted and hypocritical actions of the LDS church.
Fucking shameful.
Posted by: StoaPoikile
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October 14, 2009 1:23 PM
As I said in my original post, the legal implications of what is happening in California are what interest me most. An overarching opinion that has occurred through these posts is an apparent disdain toward religious thought and perhaps an opinion that it should not be allowed in the public square. The disdain toward religious thought is a personal opinion and I will not argue for or against it, but I am concerned that it is perhaps being pushed out of the public square. This is troubling from a 'freedom of speech' standpoint and it is what has interested me about how all of this is playing out. A thought from Richard Johhn Neuhaus effectively sums up my concern -
“In a democracy that is free and robust, an opinion is no more disqualified for being ‘religious’ than for being atheistic, or psychoanalytic, or Marxist, or just plain dumb.”
The expression of religious (or any other) thought in the public square should be vigorously defended. When I see backlash against a particular group of people based on how they have voiced their opinion in the political arena, it concerns me as an American. I see no reason why any individual should have to fear any type of retaliation for respectfully voicing their opinion in the public square. When such a fear is present, we are dangerously close to infringing on freedom of speech. A gay man should have no fear of retaliation for raising his voice on this or any issue and a Mormon should likewise enjoy that right. The fact that retaliation is made against gays does not make a backlash against Mormons any more "right". It is wrong in both cases. With that, I don't have anything more to say on the issue and I will respectfully bow out leave the floor to all of you. Thank you for your thoughts.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 1:31 PM
@167
What you're missing here is that tithing money was used without members' consent to create TV ads, print flyers, send out mailers, bus activists to California, organize email campaigns, etc. Some Bishops used their position of authority, their "calling from God", to instruct/pressure mormons on how to vote. Did you view the video of the gay mormon who read a letter from his cousin as part of his testimony? The cousin said she loved and respected the gay man, but had been taught at her grandmother's knee to "obey the Prophets." The cousin supported with money and time the anti-gay-marriage efforts in California in order to "obey the prophets". That's not a sign of an individual freely making a choice and voicing her religious opinion -- it's a sign of a person pressured by authority figures to toe the line.
The idea that "individual mormons voiced their opinion" is the myth that the LDS Church repeats so much that they may have convinced themselves. But it's not a complete picture of what actually happened.
Here's an insider's view from a mormon singles ward: "when the gay marriage thing came up in California, my Bishop gave out assignments to people at our singles ward to call people out of the phone book to urge to vote "our" way or something like that."
I would question that it is "civilized" behavior to produce TV ads that imply that laws allowing gay marriage would require that gay lifestyles be taught in elementary schools.
Posted by: Chiroptera
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October 14, 2009 1:38 PM
StoaPoikile, #167: We are talking about backlash for voicing ones opinion in the public square.
Actually, we are talking about responses to a group that is undermining some of the basic tenets of democracy, like equality and personal autonomy.
I admit that this is a conundrum. How does a democracy deal with people who are out to undermine democracy itself? If society retaliates in some way against the anti-democratic forces, then one is in danger of institutionalizing the marginalization of all sorts of unpopular groups, even those who aren't a threat. On the other hand, if anti-democratic forces are allowed to pollute the public square at will, then democratic society itself is in danger.
I don't think any democratic society has ever really found an effective way of dealing with this situation.
Posted by: aratina cage
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October 14, 2009 1:41 PM
Right then, and the same goes for gay women and bisexual men and women and transgender men and women. Do we look intimidated by your vote that removed our rights or by your golden-plated assholery?Posted by: Desert Son
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October 14, 2009 1:44 PM
StoaPoikile,
It appears that you have mistaken counter-opinion for restriction of freedom of speech. This happens from time to time among those who imagine that freedom of speech means being able to say whatever they want without hearing anything counter to what they say.
What freedom of speech actually means is the freedom to say whatever an individual wants (except in cases violating law, q.v. shouting "fire" in a crowded building if there is no fire, etc.). That's it. Freedom of speech does not include the right NOT to hear anything said counter to what the speaker says, nor does it include the right NOT to be offended.
The other part of it is that freedom of speech is not violated by the normal workings of the capitalist system of goods and services. As consumers, individuals have the option to spend their money in different ways. They may choose not to buy from an institution owned by someone who discriminates against individuals based on sexual orientation. Choosing not to buy from businesses owned by those who discriminate based on sexual orientation is NOT prohibiting free speech. The owners that discriminate based on sexual orientation remain free to voice their opinion on the subject, just as consumers remain free not to buy from those business owners. In both cases, both individuals freedoms are firmly intact without violation. There are no rights enshrined in law that necessitate or guarantee success in business.
Human integrity of corpus, as well as rights, are protected. You, and other apologists for the Mormons, have suggested that the oppression happening is because an opinion has been voiced. No.
The oppression that is happening is happening to a group of people based on a quality of their existence, not an opinion. Opinions expressed are often subject to counter-opinion. Counter-opinion is not oppression; counter-opinion is as much an expression of the freedom to speak as the words of bigots who discriminate against individuals based on sexual orientation, skin color, or other ridiculous and arbitrary designation.
Oppression is what is happening to homosexuals, including laws enacted to limit their rights, voted on (acted on) by, among others, Mormons. Opinion and counter-opinion is what is happening to Mormons.
To once again quote from recent Molly-winner Carlie, OM, from her post in this thread: http://scienceblogs.com/pharyngula/2009/10/supreme_court_justice_scalia_i.php#comments
In other words, this isn't about you and your fellow Mormons. This is about working for the rights of those who are just as human as the rest of us, and therefore deserving of the same rights as the rest of us. The Mormon church retains the power to continue to speak in bigoted terms; the rest of us retain the right to denounce such behavior as shameful and morally bankrupt. Acting against the rights of individuals seeking equal treatment under the law, however, represents actual repression on the part of voters, including Mormons. Mormons do NOT have the right to be free of criticism if they behave in such a way.
No kings,
Robert
Posted by: a_ray_in_dilbert_space
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October 14, 2009 1:49 PM
StoaPoikile, Now where exactly is religious opinion being banned from the public square? 'Cause last time I looked, a politician could not get elected in this country without slathering his live for Jebus all up and down this great land. The objection is not to religious opinion being expressed, but rather to its use in defining policy and to the expectation that everyone who doesn't share that opinion will meekly bow to it as if it were worthy of more consideration than other things--like reality.
"We must respect the other fellow's religion, but only in the sense and to the extent that we respect his theory that his wife is beautiful and his children smart."--H. L. Mencken
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 14, 2009 1:49 PM
Maybe you are right StoatPickle and mormonism and religion in general actively breed sociopathy thus explaining why one can think fantasies or beliefs can legitimately outweigh basic human rights (hint they do not, hence why no matter how many atheists come to power, there would be no way for them to legally ban religious observation).
But no matter your dance, it becomes sickening when you consider that the "freedom" they are decrying is the freedom to actively campaign for the right to fire homosexuals for being gay. That's an active bloody campaign that they have even tried to weave into all gay rights battles. The Ref 71 battle in WA and the Maine marriage battle have both tried to argue ENDA cases in their supposed fight against marriage.
Let's also not forget that this is a bias crime against religion that they are committing in the marriage fight. They are denying the right for a state to recognize civil marriages by imposing a religious idea of marriage as CIVIL law, one which is actively discriminatory to churches who believe that marriage CAN be between two men or two women as well as the gay men and women seeking to wed.
Oh and let's not forget that this battle creates an interesting leftover group. The ban blocks HETEROSEXUAL MARRIAGE between a heterosexual trans person and a heterosexual cisgendered person, but allows SECRET HOMO marriages between homosexual trans people and queer cisgender people.
Oh, yeah, and hate crimes went up by a huge margin when anti-gay ballots were on the ballot and there were a good number of assaults on pro-gay forces during the campaign.
Oh yeah, and beliefs don't trump civil rights. Mormons are allowed to preach their hate, tell their followers that their gay children are evil and deserve death. It's sad, but it's their free speech right.
They do not have a right to speech without contention. We have a free speech right to point out bigotry, name who is against us, track money donations, and exercise our own free speech rights to mobilize protest.
Oh yeah, and no one has a right to other people's money. If I decided to never buy another microsoft computer because the evil jew conspiracy is using them to control the microwaves in my teeth, then no matter how bigoted and insane my beliefs, and no matter how many followers I tell of the microwave jew conspiracy, they do not have a right to my business and cannot demand I buy their product because my opposition is bigoted.
This is how mormons have boycotted nearly everything not mormon owned without comment and it's why no gay business is expecting the local mormon church to come by and buy one of everything.
Posted by: Rev. BigDumbChimp
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October 14, 2009 1:50 PM
The freedom of speech does not shelter you from the criticism of said speech.
Not sure why this is so hard to understand.
Posted by: Chiroptera
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October 14, 2009 1:51 PM
StoaPoikile, #171: A gay man should have no fear of retaliation for raising his voice on this or any issue and a Mormon should likewise enjoy that right.
So far no one has really offered a solution to this problem. I have one. Work for justice. Maybe in the future this won't be a problem: gays will be accepted as the normal, productive members of society that they are so they won't experience retaliation for being gay, and very, very few people will be experience retaliation for being anti-gay since they, like Aryan Nation racists, will be only a tiny, marginal part of society.
That is how the similar problem regarding blacks and racists has been and is being dealt with. Maybe not a perfect solution, but I would hope that the goal of being able to voice one's opinion is to lead to a more just society, not just to demonstrate who is and is not a bigot.
Posted by: Jadehawk, OM
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October 14, 2009 1:54 PM
if you really think that, you're historically illiterate. the country was founded in armed (and thus decidedly uncivil and disrespectful) rebellion against unjust government, and has the right to armed rebellion enshrined in the 2nd Amendment of its very constitution.And no group anywhere has ever gained their rights to equality by being respectful and civil to their oppressors and willing to "talk things out and listen to each others opinion respectfully"; not the suffragettes, not the Black civil rights activists, not even Gandhi and his non-violent resistance movement (if you were to ask the British of the time, they would have found the whole thing summarily uncivil and uncivilized); and it won't happen for the gays either.
Posted by: skeptifem
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October 14, 2009 1:55 PM
I moved to utah from a non mormon heavy state. Most of the mormons here don't know what the hell to say until the church tells them what to think. You can notice it on the ksl.com boards too, even. You can't expect much from a church that demands such a crazy amount of conformity.
For example, the church used countless mormons to do work against gay marriage in california for free. A church with such massive resources using people as a free labor pool adds an extra layer of skeeve onto the whole affair. The volunteers were actually paying the church via tithing while working for them to accomplish political goals that they have never thought to question. they aren't really allowed to question them without changing their whole lives.
Anyone who has seen how this church works knows why they can't allow gay marriage. It challenges tradition gender roles. Enforcing traditional gender is one of the best tool they have for controlling the people at their church. It causes huge amounts of suffering for both the women and the men dealing with the very forced 1950's style life they are encouraged to live, but its pretty damn hard to change when all the kids here get married/pregnified right out of high school; and they would be socially isolated/disowned by family/financially screwed/in trouble with the church for doing anything about it.
Posted by: PixelFish
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October 14, 2009 2:09 PM
Doug Little @162: "SLC must be a conman's equivalent of Mecca."
Actually Utah is chock-a-block with MLMs and pyramid schemes. About once or twice a year growing up, my family would have somebody from the ward over who had just discovered Meleleuca or Amway or Nuskin or Noni juice, and wanted us to help them strike it big! After all, the Lord wants us to invest our talents like the wise man in the Bible, not hide them away....and by talents, we mean money. (Well, that's what talents referred to in the Bible too. But you can imagine how often that parable gets busted out when doing business.) And for many people, it's really hard to say no to Brother Gullible, because they don't want to offend him or because the ward is a small place or because he's the High Priests Quorum Leader or god knows what.
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Back to the main discussion. I think Lynna hits the nail on the head when she notes that this is not individual Mormons acting individually. At least not most of them. My second cousins proudly proclaimed their ward's interference in the family newsletter. They talked about working shifts at a call center--who was paying for the call center--and how their bishop organised tasks. This effort on this scale had to stem from SLC. (Believe me, ward budgets go under plenty of scrutiny.) There was tithing money involved somewhere and it wasn't the measley 2K I saw as the initial campaign disclosure.
And the Mormons have a dirty rotten history of doing this. They organised against the ERA too. Until I was in my early 20s or thereabouts, I thought the ERA must be pretty heinous. Then I looked it up on the internet.....and big surprise, it was no big deal. Merely saying that you couldn't discriminate on the basis of gender. Didn't say which gender....just gender.
I have plenty of Mormon relatives. (And my sibs are pretty tolerant for Mormons. As far as I know, none of them worked on the Prop 8 stuff.) And I like my Mormon friends and relatives. BUT the church they belong to is rotten fruit, stemming from a rotten branch. The church itself manifested from a scam, and that's documented. You can put the pieces together about Joe's treasure hunting and his suppression of a free press and his own little Mafia-band of the Danites and figure out that he wasn't called of God, he was just a creative American con artist. So no matter what accidental good the church does, it's all outweighed by the fact that it continues to harm people in the name of God.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 2:11 PM
skeptifem @181 makes the same point I was trying to make @172: Too many members of the mormon church are not free to state their own opinions, and that is in part because they have been taught to obey the prophets. They are not able to think for themselves until they get out of the cult and slowly learn critical thinking skills. I know mormons who are capable of critical thinking, but overall, the church likes to have an obedient flock, and they do what they can to keep the power structure intact.Here's a little example from today's local news: BYUI serves about 10,000 students in the small town of Rexburg. The university recently made a new ruling that single students cannot live off campus. They feel that they will have fewer students straying from the path, fewer lost sheep, if they put all the students in BYUI dorms where they have more control over their personal lives. Some residents of Rexburg will lose significant income when student renters are fewer (married couples may still live off campus). Also, the university will now have to build a lot more dorm rooms and there's some controversy on where they want to build, on traffic control, etc. The local news story also made the point that students in dorms have a roommate that helps to keep them in line. If I were a BYU student, I would be worried about this amount of oversight.
BYUI also controls the local NPR radio station, so NPR-generated programs can be bumped for mormon "Devotionals", for broadcasting General Conference live, etc.
Control and message saturation are the norm for mormons.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 2:13 PM
A gay man should have no fear of retaliation for raising his voice on this or any issue and a Mormon should likewise enjoy that right.
I will retaliate. I will no longer allow you in my home. I will ask other gay men and lesbians and our supporters not to support those trying to harm us with their dollars. I will end our relationship.
You are bigots. Own it.
Posted by: Sastra
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October 14, 2009 2:16 PM
Desert Son #195: excellent post.
We don't want to keep religion out of the public square: doing so only turns it into a sacred, unquestionable truth placed in a privileged position. Instead, we want it brought into the public square, where it can be examined, analyzed, addressed, criticized and mocked -- same as political, economic, scientific, and social beliefs. No special treatment.
But we do want to keep religion out of politics: faith beliefs are not open to gaining a public consensus. They're internal to churches. Nobody cares or feels obligated to follow the irrational precepts of someone else's religion. If a religious belief can't justify itself on secular grounds, then it should not effect laws which apply to people generally.
When Mormons say that gay people should not marry because this goes against God's law, then we have a right to demand that they either prove that their religion is true to the rest of us, or shut up and restrain themselves to forbidding gay marriages in their own churches.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 2:21 PM
There is no doubt that gays and lesbians are persecuted far more severely than members of the Mormon Church. I understand that and I think it is deeply troubling,
liar.
don't pretend you care about gay folks. Just stop.
Posted by: Sastra
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October 14, 2009 2:24 PM
Oops, that's #175. Unless you want to make another good one in a few minutes.
Posted by: Doug Little
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October 14, 2009 2:30 PM
Jesus H Christ!
StoaPoikile,
If you are going to actively campaign for the removal of a minority groups rights expect that minority group to push back against you. There is no doubt that the LDS perpetrated a campaign against gays and lesbians and a boycott by gay people of businesses that were involved is a fair, peaceful and democratic way for them to show their dissenting opinion. If there are so many gay friendly people within the LDS where is the outrage, why aren't you actively campaigning within the LDS to have the instigators removed from power? Oh that's right dissenters of church doctrine will be kicked to the curb.
Before you get all concerned about democracy in America, I think you need to have a good hard look at your organized religion of choice.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 2:39 PM
PixelFish @182
Thanks, PixelFish, for those details. That's exactly the kind of detail and insider info that people need to know. It's still difficult to explain to outsiders the degree of control the LDS Church can exert over members. It's all too easy for Church lawyers to claim that it was all individuals exercising their rights of free speech and freedom of religion.
Now the church has established separate PACs in states like Maine, Washington, and Hawaii, and those PACs are all related to the mostly empty offices of NOM -- but who is really doing the work, and where is money coming from? At least they can't blatantly send missionaries out to do anti-gay-marriage campaigning anymore, like they did in Hawaii in the 1990s.
Posted by: PixelFish
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October 14, 2009 2:43 PM
Lynna@183: To my shame, Ricks College--the school now known as BYU-Idaho--is my alma mater. I can say that when I went there, it was a smidge less oppressive than BYU itself, although it had the same assinine honor code. (To explain how assinine, let's just say that our entire dorm room was "quarantined" or "Q-ed" for having a guy cross the threshold of the living room to the back hall. The reason he did this was to give my roommate a Priesthood blessing, which at the time, we believed would help her get better. We had even obtained permission beforehand, but the RA who gave permission was off-duty by the time the incident occured, our neighbours reported us, and that was that.)
In a blatant example of Mormon life interfering with non-Mormon life, when I moved back to my hometown in the Provo-Orem area, it was hellaciously hard to get an apartment in a decent part of town without being forced to sign the BYU honor code REGARDLESS of whether you were going there or not. I was almost evicted twice, because I wasn't considered to be living up to the standards of the Honor Code. I didn't go to church, my collection of stuffed bats* disturbed my roommate and she claimed she couldn't feel the Spirit while they were around, my award winning painting was censored** by my landlady, and I had a friend who smoked***.
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* I had a cartoon bat from the movie Anastasia. I also had a number of plush cartoony ones.
**This painting won an award from Ricks College under the exact same Honor Code that was being used to mallet me into submission back in Utah. It was a painting of a cadaver from the waist up. Except for the guy being dead, I'm still puzzled as to why it freaked Mormon folks out. But they insisted it was against the Honor Code.
***My friend didn't smoke in the building or even on the property. I was scolded because he smoked on the sidewalk next to the property line. I was strongly encouraged to stop seeing him and told that he couldn't come onto the property any more.
Make no mistake. I left because every aspect of my life was subject to scrutiny and control by the church, even as I was leaving it. (And trying to be a non-Mormon in Utah isn't fun a lot of the time, but trying being an EX-Mormon.)
Posted by: robinsrule
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October 14, 2009 2:45 PM
Instead of playing games just present some credible evidence to support your religion. If you don't have any evidence, then start considering the possibility that your beliefs are in error.
No, the more we know about the Mormon church the better. By their fruits you will know them.
Posted by: o-p-e
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October 14, 2009 3:23 PM
The Mormon tendency to act the oppressed victim still confuses me. I grew up in the Salt Lake valley(non-mormon) and it never made any sense to me. The "church" gets its way on nearly every issue and when something doesn't go their way, well it's like they got kicked out of Missouri yesterday. Pixelfish@190 I understand the problem. I went to Utah State and was nearly evicted for drinking alcohol in one off-campus apartment. I had to look pretty carefully after that to find a place that didn't have a "no alcohol" policy, and Utah State doesn't have an honor code. Utah needs a serious influx of non-mormons to break the church's stranglehold on state power.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 3:24 PM
Sounds less like an "honor code" one might expect, and more like East Berlin before the wall came down. Now, they're trying to make BYU student life more restricted, not less.McNaughton's painting made live guys look like dead guys, so I don't know what their objection to your painting could have been. You should have titled it "Patriotism" or "Prepare for the Celestial Kingdom". /sarcasm
As far as the stuffed bats are concerned, as least you didn't hang a stuffed Jesus-on-a-cross. I think a plush toy of Emma with a threatening look in her eyes and a rolling pin upraised in one hand would be good decor for a female BYU dorm room.
At least the Priesthood holder didn't turn you in for luring him into the proximity of females who could corrupt him.
Posted by: Richard Eis
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October 14, 2009 3:29 PM
StoaPoikile, I have one question...how much of what these people are saying is true for you? Is this typical in your area too?
There is clearly some seriously underhanded political subterfuge going on in Utah and California. This is a lot, lot worse than I even suspected. I think dragging this religion kicking and screaming into the public light is very necessary.
PZ, they need your influence in Utah as much as Rome.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 3:30 PM
Utah needs a serious influx of non-mormons to break the church's stranglehold on state power.
I had two phone interviews with a school in Utah last year. I was freaking out a bit, but figured I could live in SLC and commute. The day after Prop 8, I withdrew my application. The folks I'd had my interviews with had been honest about the fact that Utah is a fairly HOSTILE place for queers. But, I've been in not-so-welcoming places before, and my day-to-day activism does tend to fit in better in such places where coming out is still an issue for folks. But, it just got to the point where I'd rather have spent a year without a job and move back in with my parents than move to Utah. Shit, I'm in North Dakota--not a particularly friendly place for queer folk--and I'm a couple million times better off than I would be in Utah.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 3:43 PM
There is clearly some seriously underhanded political subterfuge going on in Utah and California. This is a lot, lot worse than I even suspected. I think dragging this religion kicking and screaming into the public light is very necessary
It's also happening in Maine. I'd also bet it's happening on Referendum 71 in Washington. The hate cult is funneling funds through such things as the National Organization for Marriage [sic].
Let's recall, the first state in the 1990s to pass a marriage ban was Utah. Utah also passed a ban on non-married folks adopting that was clearly targeted at gay and lesbian people. The hate cult's leadership can't even come out in support of non-discrimination legislation in things like employment.
This isn't a group of "good people" with simple policy disagreements. This is a hate group actively working to harm LGBT people. Hell, they'd rather have children go homeless and family-less than place them in loving homes with gay and lesbian people.
For all of our trolls' attempts to obfuscate, what it comes down to is the fact that they are actively--inside the church and in the political realm--working to harm people. Until they own up to this, and until they apologize and attempt to make amends for it, they have nothing to say to queer folks. And, queer folks are perfectly justified in expelling mormons from our lives and working to take our dollars to businesses not owned by people who will use our money to harm us.
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October 14, 2009 4:09 PM
PZ:
Curse my dyslexia. I understood you to be condemning LSD not the LDS. I'm so relieved.
anti_supernaturalist
Posted by: raven
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October 14, 2009 4:10 PM
Odd fact IIRC. PZ did a post doc at a very good school for biology called,,,,The U. of Utah in SLC. If I'm wrong, someone can correct me.
Posted by: 386sx
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October 14, 2009 4:22 PM
Where did the hit n' run Mormons go? Garsh they seemed so reasonable!
Posted by: o-p-e
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October 14, 2009 4:55 PM
MAJeff@195,
Sorry that didn't work out for you. I can definately understand not wanting to move to Utah. I left, but would have stayed if I found work there. I have heard Salt Lake has a strong LBGT community but I really don't know. I ran in fairly alternative circles when I lived there but didn't know any LBGT folks well.
Raven,
Being a gentile in Utah was a strange experience. It is a bit weird to be a white middle class guy, in what is predominately a white middle class state, and feel a bit like a minority. For me it was definately a subtle feeling of being an outsider, few outright acts of discrimination. I probably lost out of a few dates because of it, and I'm sure I was subject to more conversion attempts than I realize. I do love Utah though. Salt Lake is a beautiful, and if you try hard enough, fun place. Utahns on the other hand, I get a bit tired of.
Posted by: Edward Lark
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October 14, 2009 5:23 PM
You and the Elder are equating the reaction of an oppressed minority with the action of the oppressing majority during the height of the Civil Rights struggle. If you are sincere, the comparison is blinkered and pathetic. If you are simply being disingenuous, the comparison is cynical and deserving of approbation.
I grew up Mormon and know how controversial the inclusion of black into full membership, and the eventual inclusion of the first black general authority was - and continues to be for many in the Church. Tell me, does the LDS church still preach the doctrine I was taught while still in short pants that the reason blacks were not allowed to hold the priesthood prior to 1978 is because black souls born before that time had not been worthy of the priesthood? (I have been told that the more enlightened version of this doctrine now flips the equation, saying that the white membership was not yet ready to accept the full membership of blacks and that - basically for the good of the institution - God withheld the "revelation" until slightly after it became an raging embarrassment to the Church to continue to be so behind the times. What happy coincidence that.)
Posted by: Desert Son, OM
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October 14, 2009 5:37 PM
Is it unseemly to have a cyber-blush of harmless-internet-crush glee that Sastra complemented one of my posts?
Ahem . . . in that case, I'll just say thanks and aw, shucks. :)
No kings,
Robert
Posted by: Richard Eis
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October 14, 2009 5:37 PM
-Until they own up to this, and until they apologize and attempt to make amends for it, they have nothing to say to queer folks-
Umm, no..I think the church and it's "political" agenda needs some serious investigation. The kind where the number of missing people starts getting accounted for and large sums of money get traced.
Posted by: Desert Son, OM
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October 14, 2009 5:43 PM
o-p-e:
Arches and Canyonlands National Parks are spectacular.
No kings,
Robert
Posted by: shatfat
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October 14, 2009 6:22 PM
@30
I'm sure this comment has already started a flame war, but I haven't read it yet because I got snagged on this ridiculous paragraph:
1. The Mormon church is a top-down church, not a loose affiliation like Southern Baptists or even Episcopalians. This means that what their leaders say *is* representative, and any member who disagrees is thrust into a crisis of conscience.
2. You say "quote a couple Mormon leaders" in order to minimize the fact that your SUPREME PROPHET OF GOD ON EARTH was going around saying Blacks were fallen and could not become Mormon priests back during the mid-20th century. (In fact, the LDS didn't lift this bar until the 1970's--outrageous.)
3. YOU are the one who can't seem to grasp "context." When Abraham Lincoln made those remarks, it would be very fair to say that the majority of whites in America were racist. If you're trying to argue that the people who supported slavery; who supported slavers kidnapping anyone who *looked like they might be a slave in "free" states; who excluded people of recent African origin from education, good terms of employment, churches, and many civic buildings; who profited from racial discrimination; who argued openly that Blacks were morally and intellectually inferior; who developed entire scientific theories purporting to prove that northern Europeans were morally, intellectually, and physically superior to every other people on Earth; who accepted the inhuman 3/5 compromise, the denial of basic human rights to slaves, the auctioning of children, the social shunning and exclusion of freemen, the jingoism and revisionism to place their own ethnic group in a better light, the ongoing genocide of Native Americans--if you are trying to argue that these people were not racist, well, sir, I leave you to that uphill battle alone.
Posted by: shatfat
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October 14, 2009 6:28 PM
OMG, a building in L.A. got tagged? Next thing you know they'll be throwing trash in the highway medians. Say it ain't so, Cicero!
Yeah, tagging is low-class. Like when some ostensibly Christian skin-heads (well, I'm assuming they weren't Jewish) tagged the local Jewish day school with the witty, "Die K***s."
"Die, kooks," is more my speed.
Posted by: shatfat
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October 14, 2009 6:39 PM
Crocodile tears.
The LDS tried to mask its involvement in Prop 8 (just as it's trying to do in Maine with NOM). Rather than standing behind the cause they supported, they are now trying to scuttle away like so many German cockroaches from the light.
What a shame when your cause is so despised you must hide behind a cloak of anonymity. The hateful are at last the hated. Hm, I guess the Bible was right all along!
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 6:51 PM
But let's put all of that aside and just suppose it is boycotting and picketing only. The intent of these activities is very clear - intimidation. In other words - "don't you dare sign one of these petitions, donate to this cause, put a sign in your yard, or vote for this proposition or we will make your life a living hell." This really isn't complicated - the intent of such activity is intimidation, pure and simple. I fully agree with the Mormon Elder that it is undemocratic.
Shatfat brings up a good point, and here is something our hate cult members have not answered:
Why are you entitled to queer money when you are working to harm queer people? What is wrong with my saying to queer people: "Do not support this business. The owners are working to harm you."
Why do you think you're entitled to my money?
Posted by: Anri
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October 14, 2009 7:18 PM
MAJeff, OM said:
This, exactly is it.
I don't have any problem with the Mormons using thier freedom of speech, they do!
If you don't want gay people to get married, stand up and say so! Say it loud, say it clear - make it apparent to everyone around you just what you think, so that they will know what to think of your opinions the next time you spout them off!
If your church wants to get up on its hind legs and proclaim that anyone of (insert sin here) is subhuman, or not worthy of bread, or whatever, then do it!
But do not,
do not
DO NOT
sneak around, try to cause these things to happen, and then disclaim them.
If you want to influence things, then do it in public and in the open - be proud of what you are doing!
...you are proud of what you are doing...
...right?
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 7:35 PM
Steve Benson posted a more thorough trashing of the mormon church's history when it comes to racism. Readable, and damning:
http://www.exmormon.org/boards/w-agora/index.php?site=exmobb&bn=exmobb_recovery
Excerpt:
Posted by: Insightful Ape
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October 14, 2009 7:36 PM
Stoa-liar, have you no shame?
So the mormons have the right to "respectfully" express their opposition to the rights of others, but those who oppose them should keep mum or else people may think there is a "backlash" against the Mormons? And we wouldn't want to bring out any religious sect's victimhood complex, would we. Why do the bad guys let the poor (in more than one sense of the word) Mormon church to campaign against a minority without fear of consequences-like those people getting upset and starting badmouthing the Mormon church? Why won't they shut up so that the church can celebrate its victory at ease?
As for the Mormons being small in number and so not changing the results significantly that is meaningless. What counted was the money the church brought from
other states that mattered.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 7:37 PM
Stoa-liar, have you no shame?
I think we know the answer to that one.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 7:41 PM
And, to preempt any of the hate cultists:
"protect marriage" from what?
If it's the presence of same-sex couples, then you really need to own being anti-gay bigots. That's what you are, and your church is an anti-gay hate group. Own it.
Posted by: bastion of sass
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October 14, 2009 7:43 PM
raven wrote:
God Himself was responsible for all the recent church fires in my area, zapping at least four of them with lightning. He didn't explain what His issues with those particular churches was. But then, He's known for His notoriously bad aim.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 8:04 PM
Oh, look, our dear Brother Dallin Oaks has come to the attention of the New York Times:
http://www.nytimes.com/aponline/2009/10/13/us/AP-US-REL-Mormons-Religious-Freedom.html?_r=2&scp=1&sq=dallin%20oaks&st=cse
Excerpt:
Ha! I called that one. I smelled excuses for Romney's poor showing in that pile of garbage.
Posted by: RickR
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October 14, 2009 8:13 PM
MAJeff- "If it's the presence of same-sex couples, then you really need to own being anti-gay bigots. That's what you are, and your church is an anti-gay hate group. Own it."
Exactly. Not only are they a hate-filled, bigoted organization, they are cowardly to the core.
When those of us opposed to their position and tactics speak out about it, we are holding up a mirror to them and expose their bigotry, not only to the greater society, but to THEMSELVES.
They call this "intimidation". Quite right. It must be very intimidating to have to face your own bigotry and hateful actions. You're in denial about it. We'll help you with that.
If the mormons and their "church" want to continue with this hate campaign against LGBT folks, they should stand up and openly declare what they truly believe, that we gay folks are sub-humans who don't deserve to participate as equals in society.
Step up, mormons. Bring your hate out of the closet of denial. I won't dislike you any less (that isn't possible), but I could at least respect you a little.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 8:13 PM
Ha! I called that one. I smelled excuses for Romney's poor showing in that pile of garbage.
Thing is, those of us who have had to live with Romney know that he's quite simply a piece of shit as a human being.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 8:15 PM
just ask the family dog about Willard.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 8:25 PM
Romney apparently backs up the mormon gulag, otherwise known as West Ridge Academy. See http://www.mormongulag.com/ > Mormon Connection, and > The "Program" links. Not sure what you mean by saying that you "had to live with Romney" -- more detail?Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 8:28 PM
Not sure what you mean by saying that you "had to live with Romney" -- more detail?
I lived in MA while he was Governor. Basically, the only thing he did was go around the country slamming what an awful place Massachusetts was. He was particularly egregious with regard to slamming the Commonwealth for not making life for queers as bad as it is in Utah.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 8:30 PM
The only thing that matters to Willard is Willard.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 9:36 PM
Bronze medal for Worst Person was given by Keith Olbermann to Elder Dallin H. Oaks:
See http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3036677/#33319827
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 14, 2009 9:38 PM
Bronze medal for Worst Person was given by Keith Olbermann to Elder Dallin H. Oaks:
See http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3036677/#33319827
Good on Keith.
I'd still like our hate cultists to let me know why they're entitled to my money after actively working to harm me.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 14, 2009 9:49 PM
Olbermann, gave the Worst Person top honors to Glenn Beck, so we have another mormon at the top of the infamy pile. Olbermann presented some stats for "Glenn Says", noting the number of times he mentions the following:
Afghanistan, 97 times
Taliban, 38 times
Marxism, 127 times
Community Organizers, 167 times
SEIU, 259 times
Liberals, 272 times
Communists, 330 times
Socialists, 404 times
Czars, 533 times
Acorn, 1224 times
Keith O's summary of this is "Beck more focused on waging culture war"
Posted by: truebutnotuseful
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October 14, 2009 11:18 PM
Lynna wrote:
I fixed the link.
Posted by: Insightful Ape
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October 14, 2009 11:34 PM
Jeff-
I worked at the BMC (city hospital) when MR was governor. As you can guess, he was hated equally by doctors and patients-his policies would hurt a place for the uninsured and low income people the most, obviously.
Posted by: Leigh Williams
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October 15, 2009 1:01 AM
"There are several websites that give details about how much individual Mormons contributed and where they live with instructions to harass them. The LDS temple in LA was tagged as were several church buildings and members were intimidated from going to church."
Their churches got tagged? You're fucking kidding me, right?
Did anybody lynch these folks? Prevent them from voting with threats of violence, or indeed actual violence? Burn down their houses? Bomb their churches, or steakhouses, or whatever the hell they call them?
No? What happened to them was that a few of them took a richly-deserved economic hit, and they got called out as bigots -- which may have hurt their widdle feelings, but was also richly deserved.
I'm sure others have responded to these Mormon apologists, but I don't have time to read the whole thread tonight (got to work) and I'm too pissed off to postpone thrashing them.
Let me join with MAJeff (OM) to tell you cretins, very LOUDLY:
FUCK OFF.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 11:18 AM
MAJeff @196
At least this time, the pro-equality forces are better organized, and they are taking nothing for granted. Their TV ads are better than the mormon-produced ads (Focus-on-the-Family funding, but tell-tale mormon schtick in the ads).
I think the best ad is the "Adorable Lesbians" that are promoting the "Vote yes to Ref 71" campaign in Washington. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=va7-nEAkxx0&feature=player_embedded
The Church is putting out "oh, no, not us -- we're not doing anything" propaganda. Like this: "The Mormon church has not taken a position on R-71, said Kim Farah, a spokeswoman for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints." But I think they are using NOM and the state PACs to funnel money, volunteers' time, and ad development skills into the anti R-71 campaign. Vote Reject R-71, has spent money on radio ads, according to their expenditure reports. The commercials are playing on KIRO, KRWM, KWJZ, KMPS, KOM AM/FM, KPLZ, and KING. Listen at http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2009/10/12/you-cant-have-em-both-homes-for-straight-people-or-rights-for-gays
Washington Families Standing Together is fighting back against anti-gay discrimination. As of October 13, 2009, they reported $1,184,806 in contributions—more than $400,000 more than the group had previous week. The donors include Microsoft CEO Steve Ballmer and Bill Gates, who each gave $25,000.
Moderate Mormons have put up an apology site: http://ldsapology.org/ The apology site posts a lot of stories about being gay and mormon, and they're asking for reconciliation between the LDS Church and gays and lesbians. They also provide a "first aid kit" for countering Elder Bruce Hafen's recent speech that includes this gem: "if you are faithful, on resurrection morning — and maybe even before then — you will rise with normal attractions for the opposite sex”
Posted by: Sanction
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October 15, 2009 11:33 AM
The month isn't quite half over yet, but you've got my vote for the October Molly, Lynna, for your illumination of the Mormon church on this thread and others.
Posted by: kopd
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October 15, 2009 11:42 AM
The donors include Microsoft CEO Steve Ballmer and Bill Gates, who each gave $25,000.
My respect for those two men just jumped way up.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 11:44 AM
Thanks, Sanction @229. Though I don't think the mormon defenders we had earlier in the thread enjoyed the exposé quite as much.
One of the results of bringing the LDS Church's back room politics into the open is that more reasonable mormons (I know, sounds like an oxymoron) stand up and fight with their own version of "cut it out, that's not nice" -- Of course, some of them that fight back are forced to resign if they don't want to be excommunicated. http://www.rickross.com/reference/mormon/mormon489.html
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 12:24 PM
From a story posted on 365gay.com: "The LDS First Presidency, its highest governing body, announced its support for Proposition 8 in a letter read at every California congregation, and individual Mormons heeded the church’s calls to donate their money and time." So, this was just one of the big mistakes the mormons made in the Prop 8 campaign. Having learned from their error, they have shunted the work of getting the word out to the faithful down to the Relief Society, to the wives of Stake Presidents, etc. In the case of Maine and Washington, it still feels to members of the church like the impetus for anti-gay campaigns comes from the Prophet. Plausible denial is what they're looking for.
In more Utah/mormon news:
Don't you just love the "slippery slope" arguments?
Posted by: Rev. BigDumbChimp
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October 15, 2009 12:31 PM
At least he's equating homosexuality with other natural human aspects.
There's that.
/daily attempt at optimism
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 12:35 PM
The Daily Show with Jon Stewart had fun poking Fox News with a sharp stick over their coverage of the gay rights march in Washington D.C. on his October 13th show. The segment was posted at http://www.365gay.com/news/video-watch-out-for-those-scary-gays/
Posted by: Madam Pomfrey
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October 15, 2009 12:40 PM
It's important to remember just who the aggressors are here. It's the Mormon Church (and other anti-gay forces) who are obsessing about gay folks, fixating on them and *targeting* them, whether legislatively or physically -- sometimes both. In comparison, the gay people I know and work with just want to get on with their lives and jobs without being hurt, and they don't seek out quarrels. Asking them to not strike back when harassed is not only insulting, but ignores the entire aggression dynamic and enables what in some cases comes down to simple schoolyard bullying.
I've asked these Mormon and similar religious types the same question many times: "What has a gay person ever done to you?" Never get a real answer.
Posted by: robinsrule
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October 15, 2009 3:13 PM
Dallin H. Oaks is a piece of work. From his speech:
"Surely the First Amendment guarantee of free exercise of religion was intended to grant more freedom to religious action than to other kinds of action. Treating actions based on religious belief the same as actions based on other systems of belief should not be enough to satisfy the special place of religion in the United States Constitution."
"Atheism has always been hostile to religion, such as in its arguments that freedom of or for religion should include freedom from religion."
"Those who seek to change the foundation of marriage should not be allowed to pretend that those who defend the ancient order are trampling on civil rights."
"Religious values and political realities are so interlinked in the origin and perpetuation of this nation that we cannot lose the influence of Christianity in the public square without seriously jeopardizing our freedoms."
"First, we must speak with love, always showing patience, understanding and compassion toward our adversaries."
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Adversaries which I gather from the speech include LGBT's, atheists and non-Christians.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 5:03 PM
I love the "should not be allowed to pretend" in that sentence. Chortle. So, according to Mr. Hoax Oaks, it's not that the mormons are trampling on civil rights (of course not!), but that the real problem is that we defenders of equal rights for gays are "pretending" that mormons are trampling on civil rights because our main objective is to persecute mormons.Right. No doubt. I have no interest in equal rights for gays, I just focus on persecuting mormons. I wonder why I even bother to point out that Focus on the Family, and the Catholic League are also anti-gay? I need to get back on track here. Persecuting mormons is more important. Sheesh!
Up-thread, some of the other quotes you pulled attracted other reader's attention as well. Comments included the fact that the first quote is unconstitutional in its premise.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 5:25 PM
Excerpt from http://www.affirmation.org/suicides/stuart_matis.shtmlPosted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 15, 2009 5:32 PM
Oh, silly Lynna. Queers ain't people.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 15, 2009 5:34 PM
http://www.towleroad.com/2009/10/court-names-of-donors-to-referendum-71-can-be-made-public.html
I'm comfortable having it be known that I donated to help keep my aunts' relationship legally recognized. How many mormon cowards are there?
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 5:54 PM
Thank you for reminding me, MAJeff, that queers ain't people. For a minute there, I thought they were, and I was just about to grant them equal rights. Close call. The mormon view seems to be that queers are temporary not-quite people on earth, but they might become normal people, fucking heterosexuals as they should, in the Celestial Kingdom. In the meantime, queers aren't people, they are just walking bags o' sin and perversion.
For an insight into mormonthink that leads to the kind of obedience that had mormon folk taking out second mortgages to fund prop 8, see the home-teaching lesson from Prophet Monson. Excerpt:
Yeah, yeah, right. Strength comes from obedience to Herr Monson. Full text of this exercise in big brothering is at http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?locale=0&sourceId=5d6a31f3db7e3210VgnVCM100000176f620a____&vgnextoid=f318118dd536c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 15, 2009 5:59 PM
Thank you for reminding me, MAJeff, that queers ain't people. For a minute there, I thought they were, and I was just about to grant them equal rights.
Happy to help out.
I'm still waiting for some responses from the hate cultists, though.
Here's another question with regard to the news out of WA about publicizing names. Would my aunt's be justified in "retaliating" by telling neighbors "You're out of our lives" if they donated to taking my aunts' rights away? Or, are hate cultists entitled not only to queer money but also to queer friends, no matter what they do to queer people?
Come on folks, inquiring minds want to know.
Posted by: kopd
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October 15, 2009 6:04 PM
they are just walking bags o' sin and perversion
Hey, I like that. I think there's a song in that.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 6:34 PM
Good questions. To which I have only provisional answers. Some idiots will have donated out of a mistaken sense of loyalty and obedience to religious or political seers. I tend to give such people a chance to come around, in part because I feel like they are also screwing themselves.For the most part, I only cut slack to hate cultists up to a point. Beyond that point (which is different for everyone) I hang them out to dry. For their own good.
In the meantime, I get by on enjoying with an unholy inward glee whatever trouble comes their way. I figure they earned it. I think that sowing and reaping bit comes from their side, right?
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 6:39 PM
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 15, 2009 6:43 PM
To which I have only provisional answers. Some idiots will have donated out of a mistaken sense of loyalty and obedience to religious or political seers.
To which I would still say, "You're out of my life. You shall never enter my home. Don't even bother saying 'good morning.' It won't be returned."
Posted by: aratina cage
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October 15, 2009 7:40 PM
The only gay violence from Prop 8 I can remember happened in the Castro, and it wasn't that violent, just scary for the godbots (perhaps Mormons or Westboro Baptists, I don't know, same thing) who provoked it.
The godbots regularly went into the center of the Castro (San Francisco, California) and held up signs condemning homosexuality, and they naively did so again right after voting to make gays subhuman. There was a lot of loud scolding and some angry confrontations. And who wouldn't want to give the godbots a swift kick to their behind to help them move along after the horrendous Prop 8 vote?
You can read about it from a gay ex-Mormon here (the link to the YouTube video is there, too).
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 7:52 PM
The LDS Church is monitoring twitter accounts! And demanding the removal of what they consider to be disallowed tweets.
For more info, see http://www.thegirlwho.net/journal/2009/10/14/can-i-tell-you-about-my-day.htmlPosted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 7:56 PM
More from girl who was asked to take down a tweet about Oaks' speech by the LDS Church:
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 8:27 PM
NAACP response from chapter in Salt Lake City:
As blogger, Alex Blaze said, "Mormons are not the new black."
Posted by: Jadehawk, OM
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October 15, 2009 8:41 PM
ok, maybe i missed this in one of your earlier posts, but what's this "embargo"?
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 9:12 PM
Sorry, Jadehawk, my fault for not providing context. Apparently, the LDS propaganda machine sent out an advance copy of Oaks' speech via the Associated Press. Folks who subscribe to AP received the copy, along with an embargo that said it could not be reported on nor published in other venues until after 3 PM, at which time Oaks would be done with his indoctrination of BYU students. Important stuff like foreign policy speeches sometimes arrive in email in baskets accompanied by an embargo, but for the Oaks speech to have an embargo was ridiculous.Nevertheless, if you read the whole story, you'll see that the reporter on the Twitter feed did *not* break the embargo because she did not excerpt nor summarize the speech ahead of time. She did note that the speech was coming, a sort of "stay-tune" twitter, and she noted that she had asked a rep from NAACP to attend and report back to her. That was all.
LDS Big Brother (Big Sister, in this case) fucked her over for it.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 9:17 PM
Hmmm, all those big mormon families in Utah have an effect on the quality of education. And, perhaps there's also an element of the LDS-dominated public school system in Utah *not* living up to its Family Values reputation.
http://www.sltrib.com/News/ci_13562006
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 9:22 PM
The Salt Lake Tribune reports "LDS apostle under fire for civil-rights analogy"
Excerpt:
http://www.sltrib.com/ci_13552589?source=most_viewed
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 9:28 PM
In what seems to be a "jump on the right bandwagon" attempt, Senator and LDS church member, Harry Reid is now criticizing the Church for backing the Prop 8 measure in California.
One of the benefits of this move by Senator Reid is that figures for mormon individual contributions, and for the LDS Church contributions, are brought to the public's attention again. Excerpt below:
http://www.sltrib.com/ci_13546968Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 9:31 PM
The LDS Church has a made a move to distance itself from Senator Reid's comments, issuing a statement that reads:
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 15, 2009 9:42 PM
So, the hate cult is totalitarian and authoritarian. Surprise, surprise.
Posted by: aratina cage
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October 15, 2009 9:54 PM
What? The alternative Mormon leader offered above to counter Joseph Smith is taking the side of gays?? That has to sting.
Good on the NAACP. Ironically for the reformed "non-racist" LDS church, equating their hurt feelings following Prop 8 with the struggle for civil rights was a racist act in itself.Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 15, 2009 10:03 PM
aratina @258:
Well said. I think that's it in a nutshell.
aratina @247, That was a great link. Thanks. On one of the other pages associated with that site, there's a list of mormon actions taken to push Prop 8 that's the best I've seen:
That list makes it seem even more poignant that the gay man who stood up in a Testimony meeting to object had his mike unplugged by the Bishop, and was then escorted out of the church. (previous PZ post, with video)
Posted by: Optimist
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October 15, 2009 10:55 PM
Lynna - Thanks for all the information about Utah schools. On the positive side of schools in Utah, parents are often very involved in volunteering in the schools, even the parents who have a lot of children themselves. Utah has a good reputation for having strong PTA (Parent Teacher Association) programs.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 16, 2009 12:15 AM
Optimist @260: Good to hear that about parent involvement. That has to be one of the good side effects of a community that really expects parents to do a good job.
Meta comment, commenting on my own comment @241, where Monson is quoted a touting obedience as the cure-all for all ills: "Unthinking respect for authority is the greatest enemy of truth. -- Einstein
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 16, 2009 12:22 PM
Dallin Oaks made a dirty splash in USA Today as well:
http://www.usatoday.com/news/religion/2009-10-15-mormon-gay_N.htm
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 16, 2009 12:25 PM
Great cartoon in the Salt Lake Tribune, imagines Dallin Oaks waking up gay one morning.
http://extras.sltrib.com/bagley/
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 16, 2009 1:52 PM
Wanna piss off the hate cultists? Help protect families:
In Maine, keep marriage equality by supporting No On 1.
http://www.protectmaineequality.org/
In Washington, keep domestic partnerships by supporting Yes on 71:
http://approvereferendum71.org/
Piss of the mormons and fuckosaurs and protect families at the same time! It's Win-Win!
Posted by: Ron Sullivan | October 16, 2009 10:09 PM
Oh that Mormon civility.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 16, 2009 10:16 PM
The world the mormons are working toward:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHiuCHLRLNM&feature=player_embedded
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 16, 2009 11:47 PM
I've heard from a lot of mormon friends that tithing income is down and that the LDS Church is tightening it's belt by providing even worse housing for missionaries than previously, and by housing some missionaries with church members; by cutting back on the funds Bishops have to help needy families, etc. (Of course, this doesn't affect their plans for building new Temples, and for building a 2 billion dollar mall in SLC). Their Beneficial Life Insurance company went under, but they still seem to have quite a bit of cash. Still, the financial troubles sounded like good news. Now I'm not so sure that it a downturn in tithing income will affect them that much.
Apparently, they are well set up to pressure older members to will their estates to the LDS Church. Here's a quote from an ex-mo:
And another quote from a different ex-mo:
I imagine that most large religious organizations (and non-religious not-for-profit organizations) have similar departments set up to receive bequests. The difference is that the LDS Church is both too pushy, and, at the same time, not transparent in how they use the funds.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 17, 2009 12:20 AM
It looks like Glenn Beck might be jealous of all the attention heaped on fellow mormon, Dallin Oaks. Beck is now comparing poor, persecuted Fox News (and himself in particular) to the Jews of WWII era Germany. To do this, he equates the Whitehouse (including President Obama) with fascist dictators. This makes me wonder if Beck and Oaks are a speech-writing team. Is the Whitehouse going after Fox to silence them? Seems more likely that the Whitehouse is responding when Fox News broadcasts inaccurate stories.
http://www.mediaite.com/online/glenn-beck-compares-fox-news-to-jews-persecuted-during-the-holocaust/
Posted by: Carlie
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October 17, 2009 8:34 AM
they are just walking bags o' sin and perversion
That kind of sounds like fun - where can I sign up to be a walking bag o' sin and perversion? And does anyone get a free toaster out of it?
Posted by: Carlie
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October 17, 2009 8:54 AM
This really isn't complicated - the intent of such activity is intimidation, pure and simple. I fully agree with the Mormon Elder that it is undemocratic.
How is getting more information undemocratic? It's unfortunately too easy for allies to inadvertently miss noticing when businesses discriminate, or who's donated to what, etc. I'm glad to get the extra data on which bigots to avoid.
And what's wrong with loudly stating your own preferences and opinions? I think there are all too many people in the country who honestly think it's no big deal - "Sure, I vote against gay marriage rights, but that's ok, I still have gay friends! They still like me!"
How public opinion changes is that people stand up and say "No, what you are saying is wrong, and immoral, and it hurts people, and you WILL be called out for it." It's not every single person's job to speak out like that; some people are shy by nature, some are in bad situations where their jobs or safety would be at risk by speaking out. But for the ones who can and do, more power to them. That's the essence of democracy, not the subversion of it.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 17, 2009 10:00 AM
Carlie @269
Good idea with the toaster! I'd vote for adding that to the program of recruiting people to join our queer agenda, or recruiting them to participate in the gay lifestyle. But, I'll have to ask MAJeff for his opinion. He's the official Queer in this discussion, and it was him that reminded me that "Silly Lynna, queers are not people." I'll bet queers eat toast, even though they are less than human.
Viewing MAJeff as a walking bag o' sin and perversion remains difficult for me, but by devising a catchy slogan we can all make an effort. Plus, we can get the T-shirt and the free toaster and join the haters in Washington and Maine who are shouting and demeaning our fellow mortals.
This is actually a good idea. We should infiltrate the anti-gay forces with irony as our weapon. They don't have any irony of their own, so they will be defenseless.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 17, 2009 10:03 AM
The toaster oven promotion was phased out several years ago. We're down to yearly drawings for an ipod-nano. The more folks you recruit, the more chances you have to win!
Posted by: Rev. BigDumbChimp
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October 17, 2009 10:04 AM
Hey can I get in on the walking bag o' sin and perversion? Sounds right up my alley.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 17, 2009 10:06 AM
Viewing MAJeff as a walking bag o' sin and perversion remains difficult for me,
Someone's never seen me do the walk of shame at six in the morning.
but by devising a catchy slogan we can all make an effort.
I've always been fond of the old standby, "Ten percent is not enough! Recruit! Recruit! Recruit!"
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 17, 2009 10:18 AM
We'll have to ask, but I think Carlie would go for the ipod-nano. Carlie, our first recruit! And Rev BDC the second recruit! MAJeff, we are on a roll.
I'll give the rights to "Walking Bag O' Sin and Perversion" to whomever wants to make the T-shirts available for purchase.
Much as I like your slogan, MAJeff (and we will still use it, of course), I think we need to add something new to the mix. Public proclamations that ones own self is a walking bag o' sin and perversion is bound to make 'em think twice. Think how nice it would look on TV News footage.
Posted by: Carlie
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October 17, 2009 10:29 AM
Nano woo!
I keep thinking that the more studies are done on people's views on attraction/sex/etc., the more sexuality seems like a continuous variable than a binary*. Therefore, if there's only 10% strictly gay people out there and it's a normal distribution, there's probably only 10% strictly heteros out there as well. So really, the slogan could be "90% plus the decent straights, so we win."
*Of course, I've also read some hypotheses that this is more a result of excessive emphasis in society on sex in general, so it slops over; mainly I've seen this argument in the guise of explaining that some women say/think they're attracted to women not out of being lesbian or bi, but because they're bombarded with "women are sexy" images everywhere and internalize it. And I have no background in cultural theory to be able to unpack that and determine if that idea has any validity, because does that mean there's a difference between thinking you're attracted to the same sex and being attracted to the same sex, and if so, what?
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 17, 2009 10:34 AM
Lot of deep questions there, Carlie. I think we should ask Dallin Oaks. He seems to know. Absolutely.Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 17, 2009 10:53 AM
Regarding my comments about schools in Utah (@253): Friends that work in public schools noted that the class-size figures are misleading. The ratio of staff to students is skewed because they count all of the staff, including janitors, assistant principals, etc. Most of the classes are much larger, with 28 students being a goal never achieved, and somewhere between 30 and 40 students being the rule. One teacher even reported classes with 45-50 students.
Posted by: RickR
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October 17, 2009 10:59 AM
Lynna- ""Silly Lynna, queers are not people." I'll bet queers eat toast, even though they are less than human."
Wow, I'm positively loathsome, then!
I ate FRENCH toast last night! :)
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 17, 2009 11:00 AM
mainly I've seen this argument in the guise of explaining that some women say/think they're attracted to women not out of being lesbian or bi, but because they're bombarded with "women are sexy" images everywhere and internalize it.
Shouldn't I be drooling over women instead of their shoes, then?
But, yeah, shit is waaaaaaaaaaay more complex than is usually acknowledged. Why wouldn't bombardment with certain types of images work to produce desires? Advertisers be throwing crazy money at visual image production because they seem to think it does. Let's just hope things like this continue to be Epic Fails, though:
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/northamerica/usa/6330961/Model-fired-by-Ralph-Lauren-for-being-too-fat.html
But let's not even get started on misogyny in fashion (women are objects to hang pretty things on, they're not people)
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 17, 2009 11:19 AM
Remember that awful painting by McNaughton that PZ featured recently? http://scienceblogs.com/pharyngula/2009/10/the_goggles_they_do_nothing.php
A discussion of the odd mix of Patriotism (capital "P" intentional) and religion mystified some of us. The patriotism/religion stew has a particularly strange flavor when you look at what Dallin Oaks, McNaughton and Glenn Beck cook up. The common ingredient is mormonism. Steve Benson recently posted some tidbits that elucidate some of the thinking behind the mormon version of the stew.
The quotes below discuss a purported appearance of the Founding Fathers in the St. George, Utah temple. The FFs supposedly asked a mormon Head Cheese why they had not yet been proxy baptized (baptized after death, with worthy mormons as stand-ins in the baptismal font, which rests dramatically on the backs of carved oxen).
So, you see, our Founding Fathers are not just upholders of Christian Virtues, as all fundies claim, they are Mormons. They uphold mormon principles. They asked to be baptized and they were. Imagine Benjamin Franklin in the baptismal font with a couple of French whores...Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 17, 2009 11:32 AM
Rick @279: I am shocked that you ate French toast. What kind of pervert are you?! Every time we think we know the worst about queers, they reveal another layer of depravity. Oh the Horror.
MAJeff @280
That was some photo at the link you provided. Scary skinny -- I was relieved to read that it was digitally altered, and that the model had not been sent back in time to a Nazi death camp to slim down.
As far as there being no higher aspiration for a young woman than to be an angular rack for hanging clothes, purses and jewels -- effing insane, and I've been there. I was never model-beautiful (not even close) but when I was younger I got all kinds of praise for weighing only 98 pounds and still being able to walk. Yep, arm candy, not a person.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 17, 2009 11:39 AM
Pharyngula deserves some small credit for upping the hits at exmormon.org. The bulletin board there received well over 200,000 hits on Tuesday. Administrators at the site say most of the upsurge in traffic seemed to be related to the Dallin Oaks fiasco. Now they've received "tersely worded" letters from their ISP. Basically, they're going to have to upgrade because they're breaking the system. Stop tithing, and send that dough to a worthy cause. :-)
Posted by: aratina cage
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October 17, 2009 11:40 AM
I watched Rachel Maddow's response to George H. W. Bush, who called her a "sick puppy" (homophobic much?) yesterday during a joint speech with President Obama. Rachel quickly went over how the former president's "call for Republican civility" prior to the event (which he did not follow through on himself) resulted in many uncivil things going on outside the event, including a Hitler mustache scribbled on an image of President Obama.It makes no sense and in no way reflects reality. Unfortunately, I find myself not as peeved about it now as I did during the election, which makes me think they have succeeded in pushing the Overton Window farther to the right.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 17, 2009 11:53 AM
Ahh, jeez. I've noticed the same thing in myself. I'm getting used to the insanity and the bigotry and the twisted worldview. Yawn. Yet another casual denigration of Maddow in particular, but of a whole group of people in general. The yawn response is a bad sign. I think that's what the bigots want. By the force of sheer repetition, they want to make slurs and lies acceptable, common place. Debate is one thing, unthinking, unfounded slurs are another. At least Maddow didn't let Bush get away with "sick puppy" -- but she must get weary of fighting that battle.Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 17, 2009 8:30 PM
If you'd like to see a photo of all of the mormon hierarchy, here's a link. It's a see of older white men, with one black face. :-)
http://www.ldschurchnews.com/media/attachments/32.pdf
Posted by: bastion of sass
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October 17, 2009 9:37 PM
MAJeff wrote:
Wow! Heroin-like sex, plus a chance to win an i-pod?! How can I resist that?! Please send me the enlistment forms ASAP.
Posted by: Gyeong Hwa Pak | October 17, 2009 9:46 PM
Somehow a death cultist will use this as proff that gays are out to for their kids, much like the use the Onion to bash Harry Potter.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 17, 2009 9:49 PM
Somehow a death cultist will use this as proff that gays are out to for their kids, much like the use the Onion to bash Harry Potter.
OK, I'm showing my age here, but the toaster oven joke comes directly from the "coming out episode" of Ellen DeGeneres' sitcom in the mid 90s.
Posted by: Gyeong Hwa Pak | October 17, 2009 9:56 PM
Using pop-culture references on me is futile as I am out of touch with that world. I didn't even know she had a sitcom.
Posted by: SC, OM | October 17, 2009 10:03 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xKfEdjlRxSk
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 17, 2009 10:11 PM
Carlie 276-
Oh yeah, most definitely. I'm even willing to give the straights the benefit of doubt and say the curve is slightly lopsided towards full heterosexuality, but just based on how many people I've gotten to examine their sexuality on the Kinsey scale just by knowing me and talking openly about attraction, I'll be damned if the number of bisexuals in this country (of one Kinsey flavor or another) is less than 50%.
If we could get the Kinsey 1s and 2s to come out, that would be an interesting day indeed.
That should be the slogan, "No really, we outnumber you, maybe you shouldn't wait until we all come out to get on the right side of the fight."
Or maybe just "Yes, we know about that fantasy. No, hating the gay won't make it go away. Yes it means what you think and no, you can't change that. Shh, it's okay, we're here for you in this difficult time."
Or maybe just, "Kinsey Scale, read it!"
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 17, 2009 10:19 PM
Thanks, SC. That brings back some memories.
That was such an amazing pop culture moment. Some of my friends had to work that night, so we taped it to watch later on, so I watched it live with my dad. And I criiiiiiieeeeed when it finally happened. For those of us of a certain age and above, even a sitcom's main character being openly lesbian was HUGE! We were quite literally starved for representations that didn't involve death, be it from suicide, murder or AIDS.
Posted by: Carlie
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October 17, 2009 10:33 PM
Cerberus - this is also my hypothesis on where the whole "you choose to be gay" idea came from. Some mostly heterosexual (Kinsey 2 or so) fundamentalists noticed that they were kind of attracted to the same sex but could mostly ignore it, and assumed that's what everyone else was like too.
It really is heartening to see how far we've come as a society in the last 30 years. Not nearly far enough, but still good. I remember in high school performing in show choir - we went to one grade school in town and had to do an entirely separate performance for one 4th grader, who had AIDS and was therefore banished to a mobile trailer in the parking lot for all of his schooling. They wouldn't even let him in the gym for assemblies. He wasn't allowed to set foot in the building, people were so scared of him.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 17, 2009 10:37 PM
Carlie,
Was that in Florida? I remember the Ray brothers--hemophiliacs with HIV--being firebombed out of their house for trying to go to school.
That's one of the weird things about teaching about AIDS today. So many of my students have no idea, not just about who the Ray brothers or Ryan White were, but even about the hysteria.
I recently bought a copy of the Colors magazine where they doctored a photo of Reagan to give him Kaposi's Sarcoma. It's getting copied, enlarged, framed, and hung in my office.
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 17, 2009 10:55 PM
MAJeff-
Yeah, I came of age long after the AIDS scare had run most of its course. It took reading a really awesome manga depicting what the scare was like to realize what it was like back then. Even then it probably didn't do it justice and yes, no idea on Ray brothers or Ryan White.
Carlie-
I'd be willing to bet money on that being the case. The whole "being gay is a choice" thing literally makes no sense unless someone literally "made that choice" in order to date and marry someone of the opposite sex. It literally cannot resonate with anyone who is 100% heterosexual or asexual, because the concept would be too alien.
This is also where the "homosexuals recruit" smear makes sense, because if a lot of kids are born some flavor of bi, but will follow any heterosexual tendencies like the last lifeboat on the Titanic if that is presented as the only normal, then the inroduction of a queer friend or someone talking openly about sexuality would be seeming to "recruit" children because those frank conversations get people to examine just how straight they really are.
It really would seem like a spreading virus and would seem like a direct threat as even you would have to really think about how Sally Jenkins used to stroke your hair turned you on more than anything your current husband has ever done for you.
The tactics used against the gays couldn't exist in their current forms if there weren't a shit-ton of people nervous about those "exceptions" to "normal sexuality" that we in the sane community call some flavor of bisexuality.
By their protestations, so we know them.
Posted by: Janine, Vile Bitch, OM | October 17, 2009 10:57 PM
For those of us of a certain age and above, even a sitcom's main character being openly lesbian was HUGE!
Never watched the show. (Hey, I never bothered to watch Seinfeld.) But, yes, I remember the excitement when Ellen came out and when her character came out. Lots of lesbian bars that night tuned for that episode. Even we non fans were excited by this. Funny thing, I do not recall society falling apart as part of the aftermath.
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 17, 2009 11:00 PM
Addendum to my post:
See also the nervous way many straights will play the "exception game" where they'll name a few celebrities they'd go gay for under the guise that they're heterosexuality has been well proven before the game, usually by detailing opposite sex celebrities they'd cheat on their partner with.
Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 17, 2009 11:02 PM
See also the nervous way many straights will play the "exception game" where they'll name a few celebrities they'd go gay for under the guise that they're heterosexuality has been well proven before the game, usually by detailing opposite sex celebrities they'd cheat on their partner with.
Toni Braxton. Iman.
Posted by: Nerd of Redhead, OM
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October 17, 2009 11:06 PM
Me neither. But I think it did help others come out, which started the present trend toward acceptance.Posted by: MAJeff, OM
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October 17, 2009 11:17 PM
Funny thing, I do not recall society falling apart as part of the aftermath.
Well, there was that idiot from Texas who occupied the White House for eight years...things haven't been so good since he was "elected" in 2000. I don't think we can blame that on Ellen, though.
Posted by: Janine, Vile Bitch, OM | October 17, 2009 11:25 PM
Well, there was that idiot from Texas who occupied the White House for eight years...
Oh! I am working oh so hard to keep that a suppressed memory. But as a result, I see Darth Cheney quite often. And yes, he has a shotgun. And yes, the captive birds are ready to be dropped. But for some reason, Darth Cheney sounds like Elmer Fudd. Perhaps I should avoid willingly suppressed memories.
Posted by: bastion of sass
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October 18, 2009 12:03 AM
MAJeff wrote:
Yeah, but no straight kids wanted a toaster, so to recruit them, the gays had to switch to offering ipods.
Posted by: Carlie
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October 18, 2009 8:26 AM
Cerebrus - exactly. One can only "recruit" the willing.
MAJeff - it was Illinois. I'm sure there were dozens across the country like him, who never made the news, whose parents didn't have the resources to fight the town, who simply had to live and then die while being physically shunned from their entire communities on top of being sick. I just can't even imagine how heartbreaking it was for his parents to have to try and explain it to him and cope with the isolation themselves. A small child gets terminally ill, and the friends, neighborhood, and the town literally, physically turns their back on the family. The city I grew up in was...not kind to people who didn't fit in properly.
Posted by: Knockgoats | October 18, 2009 10:05 AM
Therefore, if there's only 10% strictly gay people out there and it's a normal distribution, there's probably only 10% strictly heteros out there as well. - Carlie
But there's no reason it should be normal. I don't think we should be relying too much on Kinsey, either; by modern standards his protocols were pretty sloppy, not to say ethically dubious. Furthermore, the gay/bi/straight continuum is itself a cultural construct: look at how differently sexualities are classified in other cultures.
Posted by: Lynna, OM
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October 18, 2009 2:39 PM
Video of young mormon man that fell victim to Evergreen International's cure-the-gays program. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMCkVntVCZ0&feature=related
Evergreen's staff is LDS, and yet they take the trouble to say they are *not* affiliated with the Church. http://www.evergreeninternational.org/
Posted by: James Sweet | October 19, 2009 4:45 PM
heh, yeah uh, sexuality being a normal distribution would be pretty evolutionarily unsound... While the biological roots of sexuality are poorly understood, I think one would have difficulty making a case for any evolutionarily stable strategy (ESS) in which the curve was not fairly heavily biased towards the side that facilitated reproduction in wild humans.... don't you think?
Of course, this doesn't undermine the whole continuum idea. And FWIW I think a population that included no strictly heterosexual individuals could be just as evolutionarily stable as one which did. But I would think in any ESS, you'd expect to see a sizable majority of individuals interested in copulating with the opposite sex a sizable majority of the time...?
Posted by: James Sweet | October 19, 2009 4:48 PM
And BTW, please, when reading my previous post, take care not to fall for the moralistic fallacy (what ought to be is) or the naturalistic fallacy (what is ought to be). It continues to frustrate me that questions on the biological underpinnings of sexuality even enter into the conversation about gay rights.
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 19, 2009 5:35 PM
307-
Pretty much. Not likely to be normal distribution and to be fair to the subject, the example was in the form of "the more I hear, the more it seems to be" not an actual biological hypothesis.
And yeah, the continuum, first outlined by Kinsey and further refined by the excellent work of his Institute and sexologists and sociologists studying this problem around the world has some decent evidence for this and if you want a fascinating anecdotal version of this, be queer and start talking openly about "real" sexual orientation via the Kinsey Scale with all of your "presumed straight" friends. Lots of fun.
From my way too limited and anecdotal to be at all scientific support, my suspicions are, not normal distribution, but also not majority straight. Bisexuality seems to be the dominant sexuality for most.
Which to be entirely fair, seems to be how it shakes up in the animal kingdom, with some species being "at first perspective" almost entirely bisexual or given to engage in bisexual activity including several variants of primates.
There's some potential arguments that even more than heterosexuality, bisexuality may have the highest fitness especially in species that aren't naturally monogamous (promotes stronger tribe loyalty especially among males for greater kin fitness, gives males something to shag when females are out of heat, etc...)
Posted by: Carlie
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October 19, 2009 5:50 PM
True. However, given the limited amount of data, saying there's a normal distribution is about the same amount of nutty as saying it's entirely binary. :) I admit I was stretching a bit to make a point. But then again, given the way cultural conditioning plays into it (back to the "culture tells us what's sexy" hypothesis), it may be that certain cultures serve to spread the middle distribution out a bit. I would bet we're a lot more like bonobos than some people would like to think we are. I would also bet that sex drive plays into how bisexual a person presents as; someone who's a Kinsey 3 but with a low sex drive might act entirely hetero because there's not much impetus to explore beyond culturally accepted norms, but a Kinsey 3 with a high sex drive might be actively bisexual. But there just isn't enough reliable data on any of it to be sure of anything but that most of us aren't strictly binary when it comes to who we'll shag.
Posted by: Cerberus
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October 20, 2009 9:01 AM
Carlie-
Most definitely.
And it's really easy to see with who will even call themselves a bisexual. For instance a Kinsey 5 may call themselves completely gay or they might call themselves bi, but a Kinsey 1 will almost universally call themselves straight and most people in general assume a Kinsey 3 to be what a bisexual is.
Anyone who comes out as bi will be seen as a Kinsey 3 no matter where they line up. So naturally many who see themselves as Kinsey 2s or 1 will avoid the bi label if they can even if they are supporting of the concept because they want to privilege their dominant heterosexuality socially.
For people who don't even have that and have little vocabulary to examine their sexuality, the slightest hint of kinsey 5ness can be seen as the escape hatch to normal town. See Ted Haggard proudly trumpeting the fact that at one point he was attracted to his wife as his "not gay" proof.
Posted by: Red John
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October 21, 2009 4:11 AM
Yeah, I'm a little late to the party, but I finally got around to writing about this on my blog today. It's pretty long, and it goes over a lot of the stuff he got wrong in that speech (freedom of religion > freedom of speech, WTF?). If you're interested, you can check it out at: http://illustratedstupidity.blogspot.com/2009/10/dallin-h-oaks-is-bigoted-asshole.html
Posted by: Josh | October 27, 2009 11:49 AM
BYU shock aversion therapy article on byu's website: http://digg.com/arts_culture/Exposed_Shock_aversion_therapy_on_gays_by_Mormon_Church